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Bad Feelings
Well, a girl in my school Sara's sister died last summer in a swimming pool accident ( the girl who dieds name was elizabeth but everyone called her boo), Sara and I never had any hard feelings against each other, Elizabeths best friend Sam, and I were becoming really good friends before it happend, and we were supposed to go to Elizabeths house, or Sams house and hang out 4 days after we all talked on the phone, but Elizabeth so happend to die only 2 days later. At that point in time, Sam and I never talked ever again.. Even thou I still would've loved to be friends with her. And then one day, on Sams Xanga, she wrote a huge entry about Elizabeth, and i posted a comment saying "I know how you feel, I lost my best friend too.. Its hard, but you learn to deal. But no matter what, you'll always miss her, all of us will RIP Boo 9.27.92 to 8.10.04" and sam got all defensive saying I had no idea how it felt, and I got very upset, and this all led to a huge fight, Sara and I got into a huge fight, which basicly ended with her saying that Boo hated me. Which I know wasnt true, but I feel horrible for some of the things I said to sara, and no matter how hard I try to appologize, its never enough, I dont know what to say for her to not hate me anymore, and it kills me. I dont want her to hate me.. I honestly have nothing against her, And I loved Boo, even if me and her werent 'best friends' ... Is there anything I can say to get sara to not hate me as much anymore?
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Dear Bad Feelings,
Friendship is a tricky aspect of life but everybody needs it to survive. To make things right with Sara I would suggest that you talk to her and try to reach out to her. She lost a sister and that is really hard to go through. She might want to talk to you but not know how to go about it. You have to make the first move so go for it. Good luck!!
Alli
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YAY YOU ARE MY FIRST ANSWER (that i answer) (=
Well one of my friends got mad, never believe someone who hates you never listen to them all they want to do is hurt you. i wrote a HUGE note and stuffed it in her locker / binder (or mail it to her) and be like:
Well first of all, i miss you, you were one of my best friends. I understand you are in the middle of this situation, im not making your life any worse. i want to help you. Even if you say 'Boo' hated me, i still love her to death & miss her.
Even if we are not friends at the moment - i still love you. but if you are going to 'dump' me from your mood swings, i dont think i want to go on with that kind of pressure on me.
Well thats all, good luck - love ya ('your name')
Thats all you say (= its that easy.
♥ oox
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