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Shy?
Being Shy is a problem. A BIG problem to me atleast. I havent always been like this. I used to be in the "popular" croud and do everything they would. When highschool hit i am no longer friends with any of them. I can't even go up to any of them and say a word. Its killing me. Its making me lack in friends and i miss all of them.
Help me please! What can i do to be back with them?
What can i do to just talk to anyone!
When Im with my boyfriend, Im all open with him till im around his friends. Then I just sit there. They think i dont like them and thats not it. Im just WAYY TOO SHYY!
i comment well to if you help me!
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Well I know about shy, because I am extremely shy. Sometimes, you have to face your fears, and just take a deep breath and relax. Now I'm not saying to go up to strangers, and start a conversation because if you're anything like me, you're going to find that very difficult. But you could go up to your boyfriend's friends and say hi, ask them what's up, is there anything new. You know, tell them, that you don't have a problem with them, that you're just really shy, I'm sure they'll understand, they may even try harder to include you in conversations.
As for these girls from middle school, remember that you once were friends, so go up to them, talk to them, if they want to be your friend that's great, if they don't, well forget them. They're probably shallow, and just remember to never pretend to be something you're not to impress people, it's just a waste, if you have to do that to be accepted, then they will never truly accept you. True friends, will be your friends no matter what group you are in.
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what you need to do is just talk!talk to strangers!like if you see a girl with a cute top tell her that her top is cute.then you could get use to not being shy.are you could practice speaking.all you need to do is be your self.tell hilarious jokes to everybody.all you need to do is dont think about being shy.go hang out with your old friends!tell them do you want to go to the mall sometime are hang out?
hope i helped!
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shyness isn't something to be ashamed of but their are ways to get over it. If you think that you're afraid of saying something stupid or sounded weird don't worry about it at all just go with it. And besides your boyfriend you must hvae at least one girlfriend that you could have a girls night out with, just hanging out and relaxing and talking this will calm you down and get you ready for the next day. If you want to be friends with those girls that were your friends in middle school then go up to them and just say "Hi guys whats up?" I know you're shy so it'll be a problem and as dorky as it sounds practice saying it in the mirror over and over again and just imagine that you guy are still friends with you were before highschool. I hope it helps and good luck.
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