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HELP!
so i just took a pregnancy test,guess what?yeah its positive!omg.....ok i wasnt planning to get pregneat yet!i thought the stupid condoms worked!ok i had lots of really big plans ahead of my life!my parents are just going to freak when i tell them.my mom dosent belive in teenage girls getting pregneat,she thinks you should get married and then have cildren.also my parents said if i ever ever get pregneat they will seriously diss own me.ok i really need help!!!
PLEASE
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ok well first off, pregnancy tests arent always right. SO go buy like 3 of them and take them all. if they all say positive go to a local health clinic and get a real test from the docter (they wont tell your parents or anything). if your really are pregnant then you need to tell your parents imidiatly even if you think they will flip. they were probably just threatening you so you would think about having sex. they will find out eventually wether you tell them now or they find out later so its definetly better to tell them straight up rite now.or you can get an abortion but im not going to get into that. hope i helped XoXo (sry its long)
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Hiya
Well first you say you are preganant and you need desperate advice. Ok well what i advice you to do is to tell your parents though if i told mine i was preganat they will kill me ! Or like what some teens do is do an ABORTION! im not telling you to do that but if i was in your shoes no matter what your parents say or do i will keep the baby! They should help you in your condition so try and take my adivce and please contact me abut what their reaction was
With love
Kerry_anne
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First, I would recommend having another test done at the health department or a planned parenthood office just to be sure. Home pregnancy tests can occasionally be inaccurate. If you are pregnant, they can discuss your options with you and get you started with prenatal care.
Then, I would sit down with your parents and calmly explain to them that even though you were using protection, you got pregnant. They will probably be upset, but I don't think they'll throw you out. Once they get over their surprise, I'm sure they will support you and help.
Good luck.
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I don't think you should take the advice of the person before me. I am 16/f and I have a 5 month old baby. I thought the same thing as you, as soon as my parents find out they will disown me. Well, guess what. They didn't. They will accept the fact and help you and embrace that baby with loving open arms. Trust me, no PARENT would be able to tell their child that they can't stay there anymore just because they are pregnant. That would be too mean. So just try talking to them before you do anything irrational, and seriously think about what you want to do. Do what you think is best for your life and your childs life.
Hope I helped!
Nikki*~*
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