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15, very shy and never had a boyfriend
Im 15 and I've never had a boyfriend. Im not pretty and Im REALLY shy. Most people at school have never heard me speak before and I cant use the phone because thats how shy I am.
It makes me so sad and jealous when I see couples at school or on TV. There are kids in primary school with boyfriends and I haven't even had one!!
I know that you don't NEED a boyfriend, but I really want one because I feel so lonely and stuff
I like a boy at school and I sit next to him in registration, but I dont talk to him. When he comes and sits next to me he always says my name, like in a funny way, and I smile, but thats it. Also one time in science he and his friends were playing hangman on the board, and he wrote my whole name as the words you had to guess. I dont know if he was making fun of me or what though.
Sorry its so long, but how can I get more confidence? Thanks xx
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This guy sounds like he really likes you! I'd try talking to him (I know it's hard, but just try!). Get to be friends first, and trust me, once you're good friends with a guy or two its MUCH easier to talk to ones you like!
and don't say you're ugly, ugly people dont exist. and if they do, they're ugly personality-wise :)
If you think positively about yourself, you'll be a lot less shy. =)
hope I helped! ♥
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guess what? i was the same exact way its not even funny. but i figured out myself, BE YOURSELF. there has to be someone on this earth your totally comfortable with.. like you can do anything or say anything and you feel totally comfortable. Act like this to boys and everyone else! Cause i bet that person on earth you act yourself with likes you, right? Well its no different for most other people! sometimes its just harder cause you feel like the person wont like you for who u are.
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First of all don't call say that your not pretty because someway or another someone is always pretty. When I first moved here in the town where I live now I never talked to anyone I really didn't. I felt the same way you did. I just got really frustrated that I didn't have any friends so the next day I just started talking to people in my classes. I really don't know what to say but I talked to them. You just need to really pull yourself together and just start talking to people. So about the boyfriend thing. Well if you like this guy then you should talk to him in science. You should start off to ask him about the lesson and stuff. Thats a way to start a conversation and stuff like that. To let him know that you can speak. So maybe after that he'll start like talking to you and maybe he may even like you. And if he treats you like crap and start like playing jokes on you. Well I really don't think you should pay attention to him that much. Thats just if.
~Liza~
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Let me know how it goes.
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