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Ok, well my boyfriend, well I guess, ex-boyfriend and I broke up today. He told me that lately he's been confused about how he feels towards me as in like which way he likes me and all. And he's still really confused and he says he doesn't know why, he sayed this happens whenever he starts to really like someone alot. He's the first person I can actually say I love. I'm still very much in love with him, and it hurts. I don't know why he is so confused. Did I do something wrong? We've been going out for four months ever since december the 4th. I just don't understand this and it's killing me. What's wrong with me, what did I do, what can I do?
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Hmm... My first question is do you really love him? Because most likely... you dont even know what love is, to say you love somebody. And you'll just look back on him years from now and think, 'I never loved him' But its an easy mistake. Second of all, if he doesn't like you any more, I'm sorry, but you can't do anything. You cant force him in to liking you again (wouldn't life be so much easier?) Sorry, kid. But you just gotta get over it, thats all you can do. Nothing is wrong with you, you probably didnt do anything, and theres nothing you can do.
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I read this post a couple time, I was thinking that maybe the root of your BF confusion is a fear of getting to close. I know that many people, men, women, girls and boys alike have some kind of fear, of maybe getting to close. In some instances they fear they are not sure if they want to let go of their freedom when It comes to dating. Time doesn't seem like the issue here, even if your bf may miss you or not, You should not have to be strung along for a ride that is killing you inside. I'd say the best thing to do, is to sit him down, and tell him exactly how you feel about the issue. If he doesn't agree, and is still very confused then the best thing is to let him go, maybe he will see clearly and come back to you. You dont deserve to be feeling like a side dish. Maybe you can get him to tell you exactly what is bothering him, because confusion has to stem from something. The best of luck to you. Hope everything turns out for the best.
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What she means is, December 4th was her fourth monthiversary.
Just give him his space. There is meaning to "I can't miss you if you never go away." If you're not around as much he'll realize how much he misses you if he truly has feelings for you. Otherwise, you'll just have to let it go, because loving someone who doesn't love you back really sucks.
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You've been going out for four months ever since december the 4th?
I'm confuzled. Never mind.
There is nothing wrong with you, and there is very little you can do but be responsive to what he says and what he wants. That is, what he really says, not just what you hope to hear.
He sounds confused, which is understandable, especially in young relationships. Give him some space, keep talking openly and try to listen without passing judgement, but if he really wants you gone, then there is nothing you can do but learn to deal with it.
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