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just want to have a chance.
My brother & I are close (He's 21, I'm 17) His guy friends are my friends. Since I'm 4 years younger, I'll always have the label of his little sister to all the guys. I've started to really like his best friend and we always flirt/play around. I don't act like I'm this little schoolgirl with a crush & his best friend treats me as if I'm at his level. My brother would approve if a relationship started. How do I get rid of that label as being the untouchable 'little' sister?
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You have two options:
1. Get your brother to approach his friend. Like fifth grade, I hear you wail. Not so. When I was twenty, I got my best friend(also twenty) to approach her brother, who was a couple years older, on my behalf. Even though the relationship didn't last, it was still one of the best I ever had.
2.The second (and in some many ways this is better than the first)way is to approach the guy yourself. That method is both scarier and more satisfying than the first, because it means that you are fully in control. it sound as if you guys have every chance, so I say go for it!
P.S. A word of warning; whether you choose option one or two, do discuss it thouroughly with your brother first(I know you already have his approval) because this guy is his friend, and if things go wrong between you guys, you don't want anything to happen to their friendship. Good Luck!
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i think the only way to get rid of the label is to go out w/ that guy you are talkin about that you always flirt with! good luck with him!
hope i helped!
rate high!*
♥Jess
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