Question Posted Wednesday December 7 2005, 10:22 pm
mk not a relationship but it has to do with work. Im 17 by the way. well theres this guy i work with hes about 20-25 idk. hes got a girlfriend and some kids. (not by her tho) well im an extreme flirt so yea of course i flirt with him when ever but like he kinda does things to get my attention in a way. like Ex. hes throws things at me he calls me names and makes fun of me in a friendly kind of way . not mean. And what not.
i dont think hes very committed to his girl tho just the way he talks.
I think he is so cute like seriously but i don;t like him. would flirting with him make him think i do? could i get fired or anything for flirting like that with him during work? And do you think that it sounds like hes flirting with me by the things he does or just no. And should i just completely stop?
THOSEGirls answered Thursday December 8 2005, 1:37 pm: I don't think he's very grown up. I don't think it matters if he's flirting with you or not. You shouldn't flirt with him unless you want to be that babies mama. [ THOSEGirls's advice column | Ask THOSEGirls A Question ]
karenR answered Thursday December 8 2005, 1:00 am: Okay, first things first. The thing for you to remember now and in the future. Any guy who is already in a relationship is going to make that relationship look bad to whomever he is trying to go after. So anything he says about that...disregard it.
He doesn't have a good track record. He may very well be flirting with you. I don't think you should flirt back.
Here is a guy with two kids by one woman he didn't stick around to care for. He has a girlfriend who he evidently doesn't mind cheating on.
You really don't need the drama that this relationship would get you. So don't even flirt with the guy and make him think you are interested. Follow those instincts and just be polite.
I doubt flirting at work is against policy. Sometimes dating co-workers is. You would have to check with the management on that one because all work places are different. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
KiSSxMYxPEARLS answered Wednesday December 7 2005, 10:31 pm: Since you don't like him, then flirting with him will totally lead him on. And if you do keep flirting with him then he'll probably ask you out and you'll either A) Have to go out with him because you feel bad, or B) Reject him and make him sad. So if i were you i would stop. =) By the things he does, yes, i do think he's flirting with you & might like you. But if you don't want to go out with him, then i would stop flirting w/ him. But it doesn't mean that you guys still can't be friends. And isn't there a rule no work dating relationships? I don't know. Sorry! lol =)
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Soo..ya? I guess i was right. OH WAIT! Well...since your flirting & not really in a relationship with him, then i don't think it could get you fired. But it might. There is a possibility. [ KiSSxMYxPEARLS's advice column | Ask KiSSxMYxPEARLS A Question ]
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