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my friends are getting WORSE.
my friendships with my lifelong 'best' friends are really fading away . for example, they were gonna leave me out of this thing we have done every year since grammer school .. some friends :[ when i found this out i broke into tears because i really don't know what to do i want friends but not if they treat me like this and make me so angry & upset and everything . any advice ? i rate fives <3 thanks so much
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Sometimes friends get caught up in having the most friends and trying to be something they aren't. If things like this happen often I think you should find some new friends, it won't be easy to let go of the old friendships because they mean so much to you, but if they are causing more harm then good then its time to rethink the friendships.
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hey,
i know where your coming from...i use to have friends like that too! at one point.Since they are your best friends they should know how you feel and you shouldn't hold anything inside if this is blowing you up. go up to them and tell them how you feel If you feel left out or alone just tell them. They'll hear you out then you will be back in the crowd again!!
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wow can you say were in like the same situation?? me and my so called bestfriends were in the same situation.. they would start leaving me out of things that met alot to me.. and at first i didnt realize that i was losing them but then i found out they were talking about me... and we started getting into so many fights for the stupidest reasons like jocking off them if i wore pink then im jocking off them? and if i had the same shoes as them im jocking off them and then i found out they were talking so much stuff behind my back so i was like forget it im not talking to you guys anymore and now there dieing to talk to me and i wont let them cause my heart is sick of hurting and so i told them i wont talk to them so my advice is tell them everything there doing to you cause if you keep it inside youll end up like me
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Find true new friends. People who wont ditch you and will always be there for u
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that was rude of them. First off you should call them. See if they have any excuses. If it makes sence then your okay. If not then tell them that its mean to ditch you like that. They will probably try to make it up to you. Also get more friends so that you have someone to comfort you when you get this sad. If they apoligize then try to stay close to them - no one wants a lost friend. If they do it again then definitly get more (or even new) friends. I hope that everything worcks out for you.
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All this is is a part of growing up. Peoples groups of friends alter all throughout middle school & high school. People make different decisions and part ways. As sad as it is for you right now, hang in there. There's a sweet group of friends on the way, even if you don't see it right now. The only thing you can do if it's really important for you to save these friendships is invite them over your house to hang out or confront them and tell them you miss them. Although, I'm not even sure they deserve your friendship. After all, they ditched you && left you out!
hang in there && good luck
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tell them that you know they lefted you out and you dont want to be their friends anymore. or when they talk to you just walk away and talk to someone else if they call you hang up on them they do deserve is well hope i helped!!!
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You should talk to your friends. friends don't treat there other friends like they're not there. you've been friends with them for a very long time. don't let that go to waste. tell them how you're feeling
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Maybe you should talk to your friends. Tell them how you feel. If they are real friends they will always be there.
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