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a little help? 5's for anyone who tries
so tonight i was at a big party type thing..and i notice this guy kind of looking at me from the corner of his eye and purposely turning it seemed to look at me. i picked it up that he was doing it..but i thought nothing of it until later..he started doing "laps" around me when i was talkng to my friends. he went from one part of the room where everyone was all the way to where i was with my friends *it wasnt nearly as crowded..* he did this a couple times! my friends thinks he likes me..when they told him to talk to me he said he was shy. where do i go from here? we dont really talk so help me out from the beginning pleaseee!! this is just new for me because usually the guy likes one of my friends..i happen to have very pretty friends..ok thanks to anyone who tries :)
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well you just need to start up a conversation with him. Just talk to him about anything at first: Music, Family, Pets, Hobbies, Sports.. just anything to get the conversation going and it also helps you two to get to know eachother a lot better =] He just might be shy at first but once he gets comfortable he'll ease up =] You can also talk to him about the party. Who you saw there, who is he friends with, did you see that one girl throw up ( lol idk ) you know, stuff like that. =] just start talking and I'm sure he'll follow ( or over-talk you =p ) I hope I helped!
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MELii
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lol, okay well if he's shy then you start the conversation and do it one on one so that he doesn't feel even more shy... also crack a joke so that he'll feel more comfortable and heck, even if he doesn't like you then you'll be good friends because then you can always talk about he kept looking at you at a party
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i think you should start a conversation with him, just go up an say hey whats new or something like that.. if you start having short conversations your bound to start a relationship sooner or later!
good luck!
rachel 13/f
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Congrats girl im happy for you! I think you should make the first move ;) not a drastic move but just walk up to him and start talken.. maybe say.. I heard you were shy so i thought id talk to you.. You dont have to say that it might be to forward for you. But I deff think you should go up and talk to him! You guys might end up being together!
Good luck girlie
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Oh, he so thinks you are cute and is nervous to talk to you. A little smile and a wave usually seems to do the trick to tell the guy you are interested in talking to him. This can also work in schools. Also, if the guy is interested, you'll see that you will see him pop up in places around you that you hadn't seen before. Say hi. introduce yourself if you don't know each others names. Or say, hi. how did you like that party on friday? something nice, but maybe an easy question to break the ice. Good luck and keep me posted.
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Why not smile back? This will encourage him! Then maybe move towards him a little bit to show you're interested. He should get the hints- as he would be looking for any signs from you as he's shown he's interested. Maybe then he'll start talking to you. If he doesn't cos he really is as shy as he says why not go and talk to him and introduce yourself? You're not going to make a fool of yourself cos you know he's interested so you won't get knocked back! Then perhaps you both can strike up a conversation and see where it goes- it's really that simple!! Good luck
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hello,
talk to him. i kno its hard but call him up or something. and you may have pretty friends but this guy thing isnt new to you you are just touched because someone thinks your beautiful. you should feel proud not confused. you have something under ur nose so take advantage of it. talk to him...hes shy. tell him how u feel or just get to know each other then tell him. who knows maybe he does like you! good luck hope i helped! much love<3kate
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Well, u should just try your hardest to stay calm and just talk to him. Ask him what he likes to do for fun. And just start up a conversation with him. Just be yourself. And if he doesn't like that then he isn't for you. Believe me there are plenty of guys out there. And, one day you will find the perfect one. Don't rush into anything if you aren't ready. Remember, just stay calm and be yourself.
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First of all, when he was doing his "laps" and looking at you, it was actually an ancient old tradition called flirting. He was doing his primitive mating call for you. What you should have done was responded to that. Chances are that what you did instead was act really confused and flustered.
There is so much I can tell you about body language but in this situation, there were a few things you could have done:
a. Use the look-away-look technique. Glance at him for a second. Then look away. Glance back, this time for longer. Look away again. Glance back and count to five and then look away. Repeat this a few times. This shows him you're interested.
b. Play with your clothing and your hair.
c. Exaggerate your movements. Laugh louder. Smile bigger.
d. Keep looking at him.
e. Go read this: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
Doing all this stuff will give you a 90% chance that he'll come over and start talking to you. If not, then you can go right over to him and start taking because by then, because he'll be sure that you're interested, his ego will boost and he'll be more willing to talk to you.
Good luck <3
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I think he does like you. It's kind of creepy that he was ALWAYS trying to be by you. Lol. Anyways, since you guys don't really talk, start talking to him. You should start saying hey first since he is shy. The more you talk, the more you will be comftrable with each other and the more you will get to know each other.
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