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boyfriend and i fight
My boyfriend of a year and 2 months and i have been fighting a lot on and off. We had really good week where we barely faught at all, but now were really starting to fight a lot. We disagree on a lot of things and were both really stuborn. I love him and he says he loves me but he doesnt seem like he really wants to see me that often. Tonight i wanted to see him but it was raining. We couldnt really go anywhere except the movies but he didnt want to. Then i explained to him how its like he never wants to see me when he has the opportunity and then he wanted to go. I told him i didnt want to at that point. And when i need to talk to him but i cant on phone because my parents are by me he just continues to play his stupid video game and not come online. Dont get me wrong he can be really sweet at times so its not like i wanna break up with him. I really love him, but what should i do to really let him know that it hurts me when hes not affectionate or doesnt see me when its possible? It may seem like im asking for too much, but then he feels bad and hes tells me im sorry. Im really not sure what to do! Please Help!! Thank YOU! <3xoxo
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For 1 thing>try and pick youre battles! Dont sweat the small stuff.
Arguing and fighting all the time get old really fast, especially for a guy. Just give him some space, without questioning it.
When you and him have a chance to spend some quiet time alone, then tell him how youre feeling, and ask him the same!
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Don't try to argue with him. Have a positive attitude around him. Make some future dates with him. Go to his house and surprise him and maybe watch his favorite movie with him there? He's probably avoiding you because he's afraid you both will fight and something will go wrong. Just keep a positive attitude and things should be okay.
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