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Is he jealous? What should I do???
I am 20, and I am dealing with relationship problems with 2 guys. One guy I can't seem to start a romantic relationship with, (I'll call him "Bob") and the other I suspect likes me and is very jealous of the other guy (I'll call this guy "Jim") I flirt around and am often affectionate towards Bob, and Jim seems to get angry and even a little hostile towards Bob. Jim also seems to try to get my attention when I am interacting with Bob. I've stopped flirting with Bob, but I still sense hostility from Jim. Is he jealous? And what should I do?
Thanks!
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It sounds like he could be jealous, or feels that you are giving too much attention to Bob, and Jim might feel left out because of that. Nobody wants to feel left out of anything. You need to find it in yourself to see which one of them means more to you as a friend or more than just a friend, and let both of them know that. Why? So that both of them don't try to go after you at the same time, because chances are it doesn't make you feel too great, and either one or both of them might get hurt. So tell them what you just wrote there, together at the same time. If you simply just want to be friends with both, then say so. If you think Jim might like you, then go up to him and straight out ask him - nothing wrong with doing that.
So anyways...yeah just let them both know what you just wrote and how you feel about each of them. Try not to let Jim think you are going only for him and Bob think you are going only for him - that could confuse both of them and might make them want to do things they shouldn't and might hurt you. Hope that helped and good luck.
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he's definately jealous. take both =) haha no im jkkk definately don't do that!! you have to sort out your feelings & decide who you care for more. basically what it comes down to is who you wouldn't want dating someone else & who you truly care for. after you sort that out, then talk to both of them & let them know how you feel & what's going on & stuff. they'll understand.
-hope that helped!♥
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