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him or her??
this is pretty long but ill make it as short as i can..
anyway, i just started high school this year, and there is this guy named ken. i met him not too long ago, but we have become such good friends. we hang out a lot, tell each other a lot, and to be honest i started liking him... one day when we were hanging out we were sitting on our friends couch and he grabbed my hand and put his arm around me and stuff. it was really cute, and that day i really felt like he liked me.
a week and a half later or so, he starts dating this girl allison. i knew before he liked allison. but it didnt really matter.
so one day, we were talking about relationships and stuff and i told him what i liked in a guy and he told me "where were you before allison.. i liked you and im surprised to didnt see that." and ever since then, he always told me to keep liking him because he had feelings for me, but for allison as well. and if anything were to happen between allison and him, i was there, even though he really likes his allison.
well anyway, me and him talk ALOT like i said, were like best friends. now his girlfriend hates me and a bunch of her friends dislike me to cause they think im trying to steal ken from her. i know exactly how allison feels though.. if you had a b/f and he was with another girl all the time, wouldn't you be suspicious? and i dont know if i should just give up on ken or not.. i hate drama and i dont wanna be in the middle of it! but i dont wanna lose ken as a friend either..
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tell ken that you still like him (( if you do)) and tell him that you guys just can't see each other untill him and ally brake up...you can also tell him (( if you want to)) that you have to wait because youre tired of being second best and you can say that youre gonna back off until youre number one Hope I helped =)
Samantha Lynn
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THiS SO0UNDS OF T0 FAMiLiAR HUN..I KN0W EXACTLY WHERE YOUR COMMiNG FR0M..
same thing happend to me. and the girls were just as bitchy. but besides them. he is 1 of ur bestfriends and that shouldn't change no matter what people say or think..that shouldn't matter..as long as you`re truthful and honest to him and he is to you..then its all good =] please rate..
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you don't need him. move on. not only are you making enemies..but even if you did go out with him..think about this.
what if he met another girl and did the same thing to you that he is doing to allison? if he's doing it now he'll most likely do it again.
find someone who likes you..and only you.
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you just said in your feedback that you are best friends. you can easily tell him that he has a girlfriend..and you aren't willing to be his back-up girl so you just want to stay good friends. then you just have to try to move on..
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Answer: This guy is bad news. He is telling you to keep liking him even though he is going out with someone else. He is being a coward. Why?
He wants someone to fall back on in case he and Allison break up. You are the fall back person. Do not let him do that to you!
He is using both you and Allison. He needs to choose one girl. He cannot have the best of both worlds. If he really liked you, he would not be with Allison.
You deserve better!
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You should of forgot about him when he said keep liking me because he had feelings for you. TO mean thats just saying your his back up girlfriend. But if you don't want to forget him just tell him to pick either you are allison and if he doesn't pick you then just forget him and just be his friend.
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I'm pretty sure that's borderline cheating on his part. He shouldn't have a girlfriend, and have a girl planned out for when he breaks up with her. Not only does that show his current girlfriend that he doesn't really like her as much as he claims, it shows the other girl they're only backup. Do you like knowing you're backup? Just forget about him.
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