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how do i show them i've changed?
ok so this summer totally changed me. i got my first b/f and i met a lot of new people who are really great. before now i was "quiet" to most people in school, except my friends, and now i'm sooo different! everbody expects me to still be the quiet girl, but i'm not that way anymore. how do i show them i've changed??
14/f
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dont be quiet anymore...start to shout etc etc etc
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Now that you've changed, you are no longer going to play the part of the quiet girl. Given enough time, your classmates will see this for themselves and learn to accept you in your new role. BE PATIENT. People naturally resist changing their beliefs about other people. Just continue to be yourself--your NEW self--and they will eventually see the new you. Congratulations for coming out of your shell--how exciting!!
Dr. Chad
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That happened to me over the summer tooo. Kind of. Well everyone used to think I was the quiet girl. But anyways. You can show people you changed by getting to know lots of people at your school. Just make friends with people. Because the more they get to know you, the more they get to know the real you. That will show them that your not just this quiet girl. It's really not all that hard making friends with them. Ya just gotta be friendly. Smile alot. Be nice. Don't give dirty looks or anything to someone you wanna be friends with. =] alright. Hope I helped!!
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don't show them, let them find out themselves. If you try and show them their going to think your "trying to be cool" so just be yourself.
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be happy in front of them
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be yourself. duh if you want people to see your new self, then be your new self.
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The best thing for this type of situation is to ask them to hang out and dont be quiet start talking and be part of the group. Also you could flirt more oh but you have a boyfriend. Be more outgoing and tell them that you are not the shy little one in school. If you participate in class it will show that you are not afraid to speak up.
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