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avoiding
Ok so I have a crush on this girl who ive been flirting with to much. and right now i believe shes tryin to ignor and avoid me. Like I was at a dance today and I was walking up to her to say hi and that she did a good job when she was cheerleading at the west gym {she is not a snot , i put this in here because some peeps might thiunk cheerleaders are snots}, and she ran off to the dark center of the gym. Atleast i think that was her. Anyway, I was wondering how I can get some positive reinforcesments in my situation.
Loosin sleep and desperate <:.-[
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Totally ignore her for a week. Believe me im a girl. She be thinking "WHAT HAPPENED I THOUGHT I WAS LOVED" (lol)well something like that. and then she'll start coming around you more
(This works) *~*Karlie*~* hope i helped
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Just be persistant, if you continue to chase after her and be very kind to her she will eventually acknowledge you and go out with you. Make sure you make her happy a lot though, try to do kind thigs for her and don't be impatient. Good things come to those who wait.
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Ok the best thing is to talk to her. Mayeb you should let her have some space for just a day or two. Maybe something in her home life happened and she didnt really want to talk anyone especially someone who sounds like they like. She may like you so much that she cant tell you. Suicide is definitely ot the answer. If you are dead then how are going to know what kind of life you will have especially if tat means it will be with her? I know something serious happens in my family i cant talk to anyone but the people i am not close to at all or the ones i dont like very much. It hurts to much to talk to the ones i am closest to. Maybe if you wrote her a note or ask her friends what is going on or have one of your friends do it.
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oi poor guy...try to talk about it with her...you better do it on phone or e-mail and when she still ignores you on both you WILL have to talk with her in real...and better!if ur sooo sick of it u ignore her!
Best of luck mate you
will need it
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It sounds like she doesn't like you the way you like her. Maybe you should cut down the flirting so that she isn't uncomfortable around you. Also, why are you close to suicide? You're thirteen. You shouldn't be thinking about ending your life. Especially if it's about this girl.
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You're putting too much leverage on this one experience. Of course she wasn't trying to be a snot. I wasn't ever the star of my High School squad but I loved it when people had positive feedback on our routine (even if it's just a practice). Since it was a dance, perhaps she was looking for a friend and saw her accross the room and decided to go say hi. Since everyone is inside a tiny little room with loud music, she probably didn't hear your comment. There are many things that could have happened that needed her to tend to other than you. Don't stress over this one small thing. Like you said, she's unlikely to have been trying to purposely be a snot. View everything first from an eagle eye view and then begin to work your way through. Don't think everything going wrong started with you.
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