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16 m: okay so last year I had a good thing going with this girl.she was amazing and I seriously had it bad for her.we used to hold hands through the school and she was always scooting her desk next to mine in history class and we would always just talk and it was as if nothing else mattered.so one day i asked her out and she said that she wanted to be single for a while to get over her ex.I completly understood and so I gave her what she wanted. So i held out for her the whole summer only to find out 6 weeks into this school year she got back with her ex during the summer.when she told me this i was seriously pissed but i didnt show it.I think she knows what she did to me because now she wont even look at me. I havn't spoken to her since last wednesday.Now I feel as if I wasted my time waiting and I find myself wondering if anything between me and her even matters to her now.What should I do?
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I know that you are upset.You probably still like her.But she has made her decision.Even though you still want to go out w/her she doen't want to go out w/you.I think you should move on to a new person.
Sincerley,
Katie
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What probably happened was she liked you, but still really had a thing for her ex. She may have been holding out to see if it was possible to get back with him. Now, she should have offered up this info, but she probably didn't want to hurt your feelings. You can stay angry, which to be honest is only hurting you, because while she feels bad, she isn't losing sleep over it. I would just take it as a lesson learned. Next time when giving someone their space, you will know to live your own life as well.
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She must have known that her and her ex were getting back together, thats why she was holding off getting involved in another relationship. Usually if guy/girl makes up an excuse not to go out with a some1, it usually means something. Next time if you ask a girl out and she gives you an excuse, move on!
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Hmm.. first, go get a cookie and eat it [chocolate chip is the best], sit down, relax, and read [or you can just skip to the reading part]. I'm not always this random.
You might have wasted your summer waiting for her, but that doesn't mean you don't have any time left. So it was one summer, but there are still many more summers [well about three for high school]. Plus, there's the school year, too. You lost a summer, but at least you won't be wasting your school year. Forget the girl and get out there! Find better girls, stop mopping about waiting and enjoy life. :)
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