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please help..desperate need here
Ok, my 3 best friends recently kind of just...left me. Like on the weekend we were gonna get together to go to the movies, and one was like "I just dont think it is going to work out" and then i found out later that they went! And we were all gonna do the Halloween costume theme deal and now I found out that they changed it to be the Fanta girls but they didnt want me to know and it is even sadder because I came up with us being the Fanta girls. And for them to make a Halloween thing with it just makes me mad. But I dont know what to do. I used to have so much fun with them, but now it is like they all hate me. And I have heard that they said that.
So I asked and they were like "No, we dont hate you..." and like if they someting totally mean and then brag about it and I dont get mad they will twist up my words like "We went to the movies and it was sooooo much fun and the most funny thing happened.." "cool" "are you mad at me? because oyu are acting like a total b*tch" please help, i dont know what to do...
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If they are treating you like that they are not reall your friends. I suggest distancing from them for a little while. Maybe you guys are spending to much time together and getting on each others nerves. My friend Vicki and I are like that. If we spend to muc time together we start to get into it. Chances are they are talking about you behind your back and are to scared to tell you the truth so I think that it would be best for you to find someone that doesnt do that or maybe a g/f?
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I think I agree. Maybe it's time for new friends? You deserve to be treated a LOT better than that, and there are always other people to be friends with. Eventually, they WILL miss you. When they do, it's up to you what to do. (=
♥ Melissa
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Maybe it's just time to make new friends. The same thing happened to my sister, her best friend called her and told her they shouldn't be friends anymore. After awhile she wanted to be friends again. But when they hang out and stuff she alwayz ditches my sister to go by her other friends. I would say make some new friends and 4get about the old ones..it may be hard but its for the better. o and about the halloween costumes...get some girls together and u can be the Fanta Girls 2...make sure ur costumes are better...Hope I helped ~Shelby~
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