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I Need Some Feedback
Well i have been pretty close with my friends for the past 3 years (I'm a senior in HS) and i feel as if they have become very distant from me lately. They all have girlfriends except for me. It seems that all the girls i have crushes on are the ones going out with my best friends. It seems as if my friends ditched me for girls that i like, it's a very messed up situation. I don't think of myself as a shy person, it's just that i'm never around girls that i like. My friends have classes with these girls so they are around them more, so i guess you could say that they have more access, i don't know. I have never had a gf in highschool and i don't know what i'm doing wrong. At this point i'm convinced that i'm a loser.
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I'm not a guy so maybe it's a little different, but I know exactly how you feel. I didn't have my first boyfriend until my freshman year in college. I never even got asked out by anybody until that year. I used to think I was ugly and boreing and that guys just didn't like me. I was involved in everything and even though I wasn't popular I was liked. This made me feel like even more of a loser and I just knew that I would die single. After leaving high school I had a summer job as a 4-H camp counselor and it changed me a lot. I realized that I wasn't such a deadbeat and that people really did like me. College gave me so many opportunities because of the freedoms it gave me. It took me awhile to adjust, but I found my niche and even though my boyfriend doesn't go to my college, (he actually worked at my summer job with me) I somehow ended up with him. What I'm trying to say is that once you're out of high school so many opportunities will be there for you. I do kind of wish that I'd had a bf in high school, but really, I'm almost glad that I didn't have to go through that drama and that I'm with the guy I'm with now. High school relationships usually go down in flames once college starts (I've seen it happen to so many people) so you should actaully consider yourself kind of lucky to be going into college single. You'll meet so many new people and so many great girls that will want to be with you. It's not that far away now, you could easily be in a great relationship in less than a year. Good luck, and don't worry about girls too much for the time being. You'll get your chances, and plenty of them.
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well hey i m only a freshmen but i know people who are in their senior year, i think u should keep your mind on your work because hopefully your thinking on going to college next year, so just pay attention to your work and meet new cooler people in college it all works!!! lol
hope i helped
~lizzybeth
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Thanks for the feedback guys, i'm going to try to talk with them today.
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i know exaclty how you feel, and its a horrible feeling. your a senior you need to start having fun and not worry about how horrible your friends are being to you. you can allways try talking to them, sit one of your frineds down and talk to him, explain to him that it hurts you that they leave you out. and if he is a good enough friend , he will listen and understand.
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First off, you aren't a loser. You should NEVER consider yourself that way.
Perhaps, deep inside, you are waiting to find that 'one' girl that catches your eye.
Some people don't choose wisely who they date. Just give it time, you'll find someone.
If they don't find you first!
-Good luck! and God bless!
-Hope it helps.
Hailie
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