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so i got a gf but i like another girl in school and i know that she likes me because before i had my gf i asked her out and she said no but she still likes me just she isn't ready to go out with me. my gf doesn't go to my school but the girl that i also like but can't stop likeing her (starting to think i'm in love with her), does go to my school. but i don't wanna be mean to my gf if i dump her cause its been a short time that we've been goin out, plus how would i know if the other girl would go out with me. WHAT THE HELL SHOULD I DO?????
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I think you should ask the girl in your school out...and see what she says.....And if she says yes just tell your girl friend that you dont really want a girl friend rite now or even tell her that you dont think you to are right for each other.
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Ask the girl if you would ask her out, if she'd say yes. Don't lead your girlfriend on, tell her how you really feel. If the other girl says she won't go out with you, then forget about her because obviously she doesn't like you all that much.
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If the other girl truly liked you, she would have said "yes" to going out with you the first time. If you liked that girl more, why did you ask another girl out for? Was it because that other girl said no to you?
You shouldnt have asked youre current gf out if you had stronger feelings for another girl. Girls dont like to be played, and if you keep skipping from girl to girl, youre not gonna have any1 to pick from, because theyre all gonna realize the type of guy you are. Girls want a guy they can feel secure with, and 1 that doesnt like 2 girls at the same time. If i was youre gf and i found out that you liked another girl, i would break things off with you.
As far as what U should do. You obviously like this other girl more, so you need to be open and honest with youre gf. Its not a matter of "if i dump my gf, will this other girl go out with me". Its "will i look like a player if i dump my gf for another girl that i like more"!
Dont ask girls out if your really not into them, or because another girl said no to you. Girls take relationships alittle more seriously than guys do. So at least have a little compassion, and think before you make any hasty decisions.
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Ok base who you pick by who is prettier. If you like the girl in your school better, then tell the girl from the other school that you don't think things are working out and be honest and tell her that you like maybe even love another girl from your own school.Hopefully she will understand.
About the girl from your school. Tell one of her friends to ask her if she likes you or even one of your friends. Do this before you dump your girlfriend. If she says that she likes you and wnatts to go out with you to her friend or your friend then ask her out.
Hope this helped
Good luck!!!
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Do you feel anything for your current girlfriend? You're getting yourself in a big mess. When you have a girlfriend it's always a bad sign when you still love another girl. You need to find your feelings for your current girlfriend, and let her go now before she gets deep in the relationship. You can't string her along. You can't just use her as a rebound girl either, which is what I gathered from your last sentence. I could be wrong.
As for this other chick, talk to her? Tell her that you could take things slow if she wasn't quite ready for a steady relationship. If you really think you're in love with her then go the extra mile to try and prove it to her.
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you need to set down and THINK. think which one you want to be with. DONT go with the girl your going with right now if you dont like. i promise you shw ill be in WAAYYYYYYYYY much more pain then she would be if you just told her how you feel. talk to the girl you like ask her what she thinks of you. maybe even get to know her more before actually askin her out. but if you DONT like your current girlfriend then BREAK up with her NOW dont lead her on. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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