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bisexual problems....
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okay, i am bisexual and i have a gf, i love her but i would rather be with a guy. but she doesnt know it yet. meanwhile i like this guy in school and he is so cool, i would love to get with him but i dont know how to tell my gf that i would rather be with him. later in life my ex-girlfriend calls me saying she loves me and she wants to go out with me.i told her i was bi, and also i would rather be with a guy but she does not want to accept that, she is crying saying why cant i be straight and stuff like that. I am so confused right, i dont know if i should stay with my good looking gf, go back out with my ex-girlfriend who could help turn me straight, or go with the guy i had in mind??? i really need ya'll help this is sooooo confusing!! if it helps i am 15 yrs old. i would rate really high if you give me a good answer!!!
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hey im bi 2 and this has happen 2 me befor just follow your heart but first if you like the boy make sure he is gay or bi because when it happened 2 me i did not make sure first and every one made fun of me. good luck
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okay to start off with im not bi but i have many friends who are, dont go back out with your ex-girlfriend just because she could help turn you straight. First because you would be using her and second because true feelings are not there, anymore.
It seems asthough the girl you are with now, you still have feelings for.If you breack up with her you may feel regret later; but this should not stop you from being with the one you WANT to be with, the guy.
Tell your girlfriend you still care for her, but you care for someone else aswell.
good luck hoped this helped <3
gabiie
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okay so i'm 16, a guy, and bisexual too. you should tell your gf that you told her u were bi only in confidentiality, that you liked her still, and you were the same person on the inside. tell her that its only natural to have other crushes on people. remember, not everyone is going to be accepting of your sexual orientation, but the ones who do accept, are the ones who matter the most. and plus, the poor girl is probably not used to such a thing before, she is probably confused and doesnt know what to do. if you do like the boy, it wouldnt hurt telling, but also remember that most guys at that young age are still trying to discover themselves, or try and fit in an might not be interested in males now/ever. just remember, keep your head up and don't listen to negative responses.
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do you want to be straight? if you do go with the guy if you want to be bi, go with either.. if your just plain gay, go with the girl.
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what do you want to do? do YOU want to be bi or straight?
Maybe you could try the guy . just to see if thats really what you want to do. and if things feel weird . or dont work out you can go out w/ your ex girlfriend.
but i think you should break up w/ the girl you are with right now .. it seems like she isnt giving you what you need.
this is all up to you tho.
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well... it all depends... if you wanna be straight go with your girl friend. but if you realy dont care about being bi than go with who u feel most happy and comfortable with.
hope i helped.
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meg
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hey, i amd thinking that your a guy so if you really want to be straight then go back with your ex, or if your fine with the fact that your bi then hook up with the guy you like. also dont just go out with your gf cause shes hot. but its really your chose in the long run..........
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I'm just going to assume that you're a guy here..
First of all, do you really want to be straight? If you're perfectly fine with being bi, then don't go and try to change yourself. Also, love is such a strong word for being 15. You have plenty of time to find the right person for you, so don't freak out too much if you think you've made the wrong decision.
With that said. Don't stick with you're girlfriend just because she's good looking, and don't get together with a guy just because he's cool. Go with whoever you think you'd best get along with, and don't forget you can still be friends without being in a relationship! It's never one or the other.
Hope this helps, PK
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