there is this guy that i swim with everyday and i like him alot. he is really nice and funny. he also constantly looks at me and gets in the same lane as me everyday. i dont think this means that he likes me, but is there anything i can do to get his attention? i really want to hook up with him, but i dont know how to get his attention without looking stupid. please help!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Dumbblond1chick answered Sunday September 11 2005, 10:39 pm: Well it is obvious that he notcies you, either as a friendor more can never be certain but if you want attention make it known not so much that you seem like a geek but enough to make it known that you notcie him to.Make eye contact nd then look him up and down this action shows that you are interested nd then smile at him and continue your laps its important not to talk to him yet wait till th next time you see him. The next time you see him walk over and intruduce yourself not ill energetic just be calm and then ask for his name if a convorsation is rolling that well say alright im gonna continue my laps talk o you later. You dont wnat to be sitting in awkard silence and you dont wnat to annoy him. If the convo isnt going great thats fine because now your notcied and he wont be shy and he proably will now come over to you and talk to you say hi and believe me things will beruning smoother... [ Dumbblond1chick's advice column | Ask Dumbblond1chick A Question ]
lizzzz answered Sunday September 11 2005, 10:21 pm: i would try to talk to him. just talk about your interests and school and stuff. since you swim together you can talk about that. just talk casually at first. don't push it though. just become good friends. hope i helped. [ lizzzz's advice column | Ask lizzzz A Question ]
TheOldOne answered Sunday September 11 2005, 8:38 pm: "he is really nice and funny. he also constantly looks at me and gets in the same lane as me everyday" is practically the DEFINITION of a boy liking a girl. Nothing's absolutely certain in this world, but to be honest, if I were a betting man I'd put big money down on this: he likes you, and as more than a friend.
Talk to him more, make eye contact, and he'll respond. If he doesn't ask you out (he may be shy) you should ask HIM out.
Really, this is one of the most obvious cases I've ever heard of. He likes you.
daniel answered Sunday September 11 2005, 7:39 pm: when no ones around him go talk to him a little bit and when you start talking ask him if he wants to walk you home. [ daniel's advice column | Ask daniel A Question ]
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