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What do I do?
There is a guy I know that I really like but he has a gf We are really good friends and he likes me to but he does not cheat and I would not ask him to I never have the good thing is he is far away but next week I am going to see him I don't know what will happen because we like each other so much and the thing is I have a bf to His gf is in Chicago tho and he is in San Francisco she is stupid because she told him the only way she would move with him to San Francisco is if he married her and hes not ready for that yet Im gonna be leaving my bf soon because im not happy but I don't know if he will because he says he loves her but I know he likes me and thats why im going so we can talk in person and see whats going on What should I do? Im confused Should I sleep with him or no? Female/23
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USE PUNCTUATION MARKS. And no don't fuck him.
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It's really good that you and this guy are going to talk. I think you both need to assess your relationships - with each other and with your partners. I certainly don't think you should sleep with him though - not unless you have both left your partners.
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No, you most certainly should not sleep with him. Apologies in advance for coming over the moral heavy, but it's a) Not worth your while, since your crush at least SAYS he loves his girlfriend (more about that later)and b)it is,IMO,just plain wrong.
But to return to point a):Sheer Practicality, remember that you only have his word for the state of their relationship. It's an unfortunate fact that unsrucpulous people, slightly more men than women I believe(sorry guys) will tell any number of lies in order to cheat on their partner and keep them. I don't understand what motivates such people, perhaps a sense of danger, intriuge , idk. But one thing's for almost certain, the "other woman" will be the loser. Read, "He's just not into you if he's married" chapter 10 of the largely excellent "He's just not that into you" by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tucillo.
Seriously, if you want to break up with your current bf, go ahead, I'm sure it's the right thing to do, as things clearly haven't worked out between you two. But I would strongly advise you to wait a little before you try to find s/o else. And this time, make sure he's available before you become attached. Good luck, lol lucretia xx.
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