Question Posted Saturday September 10 2005, 6:13 pm
ok i have this friend. (see title)
anyways we think of e/o as bff and all, but some days, idk she seems kind of ticked. like i say something and she doesnt really respond and i'll ask her whats wrong and she will freak out.
Say we are sitting in math(our first clas togeter) and we both dont say anything. then i say something like 'wow the day is going by fast' or 'did you hear about mr. jo's pop quiz?' and she wont respond, she just sits there. then i ask her whats wrong and she goes: NOTHING! I Am Just Tired! in a real annoyed voice.
what do i do? please hurry i rate high!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? rikatree2375 answered Sunday September 11 2005, 8:16 pm: Here's a hint, usually when people say they're just tired, it's the only exscuse that pops into their mind that would make sense. I say this alot to my family and specially my sister because she's always asking me what's wrong. Try not bothering her by asking. If she wants to act like crap and not say anything, then let her. She'll eventually get over herself. I know that sounds mean but people get moody sometimes, i should know!!! If it continues, there might be something she's holding in so you might want to be really sensitive towards that. If it gets worse, then start to question. But for now, give her some space and she should get better. Hope i helped!!!
honeyJ17 answered Saturday September 10 2005, 11:15 pm: Just leave her alone. Girls have their days and when they have their days dont mess with them hun. I know you have no intension of annoying her, you just wanna know whats wrong and talk to her, but just give her some space. Maybe theres some problems happening in her family or in her house. Take care [ honeyJ17's advice column | Ask honeyJ17 A Question ]
Razhie answered Saturday September 10 2005, 7:52 pm: Maybe she is really tired?
Just give her some space. She is in a bad mood and being bitchy, so back off a bit. Just ask her if something is wrong, make sure she knows you are there for her if she needs someone and then leave it.
She shouldn't be snapping at you every time you open your mouth, and if she wont tell you what is wrong there is no reason for you to just hang about and accept her snarky attitude. If she wont let you help her then just leaver her alone to sulk. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
oxshortstufffxo answered Saturday September 10 2005, 6:41 pm: maybe like...hormones or something must be effecting her lol...well i get pretty crabby sometimes to my friends too.
when she starts acting like that its either because she really is tired and in a bad mood or jus wants attention. either way, when she starts acting like that, you should just ignore her. wait for her to be in a better mood or when she talks to you first. if shes like this constantly, you could just stop being friends with her. she will realize what a brat she's been and hopefully apologize. if she doesnt, then i guess shes not worth being friends with anyway.
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