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ShEs GeTTiNg On My NeRvEs WhAt ShOuLd ii Do!?
Heyy. I'm Jamie and im 14/f
Okay my best friend is really annoying me lately. She doesnt tell me anything! She likes some one and told everyone but me and im one of her best friends! I got so mad at her because seems like she doesnt trust me but anyway shes also acting conceded like all these guys like her so everyday she'll talk to me online and be like so and so likes me and im like I dont care cause she constantly brags about it. I'm not jealous it's just soo annoying! To make it worse the one person I like likes her. I'll be like ur so lucky the one person I like likes you and she'll be like haha or laugh or something. She also says that she doesn't like this one girl Ashley that doesn't like me but she talks to her on the phone like almost every nite and went to her house a week ago! How two-faced is that!? What should I do!? Please don't say talk to her because that never works.Thanks!
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I saw that at the end of your question that you said don't talk to her. That's good because you should totally and completely ignore her. If she isn't too busy bragging and stuff, and she loves her best friend, (you) she will notice you and ask what's wrong. And who is this Ashley? I have a friend named Ashley and she is mad at ME!
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I hate to say it, but it seems as if you've already answered your own question. Such behaviour as you've described is anything but friendly, and you deserve more than that from someone you value and consider to be close to you.
I speak from experience: I'm twenty-one and I came very close to completely abandoning my best friend after she displayed similar traits to yours(minus an Ashley equivalent). In our case, she was devestated when I told her and made a real effort to change- which might just be the difference between twenty-one and fourteen. Having said that, I am not sure you shouldn't talk to your friend, even if only to let her know, as you leave the friendship, how much she annoyed you. Good luck, Lucretia xx.
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