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feeling left out
i am really upset right now cause i have known my one freind for like 13 years btw im 14/f and shes trying to make me jelous cuz she and i have the same freinds at this tiny private school, cuz for some reason she can make friends easier then i can. im also very quiet until people get to know me but my friends that she and i have i feel like there leaving me out and when i ask them if there mad at me, or asking them why there leaving me out they say no of course not n just ignore me. like i know there not mad at me n stuff but they just keep on ignorning me for no reason. i also want to make some new freinds and im really quiet n i dont want to ask how was your day or ask about music, movies or books...i dont keeep up. so i need help n i swear ill rate fives
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you are you! and if these people dont accept you as you then its time to look elsewhere for friends as these people u deal with are obviosly either jealous of you or are just general wank-biscuits.
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ok hears wat you shouldyou need to speak up and just try doing what your best friend does to you just take your friends of her dont be afraid to speak up just ask if they had a nice day or sommet like that dont be shy around your friends kk good luck xxx xWhiteTigerx
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Friends do that when they want to be portrayed as cool by others that they are trying to please. So you really need to talk with other people b/c you're quiet , I know. But how are you going to meet people if you don't talk to anyone. It's going to be difficult if you're a bit reserved, but it should be challenging b/c that's life. You may find people that you're easily compatible with in a friendship. I don't know and you don't know yet. So try it and go for it. And treat your friends witht the same inferior attitude that they use towards you. Let them know that the sun doesn't rise when they say so .
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You are very grown up for your age. And well if you want to make new friends you need to be a role model. Use your talents. If you are good at math or whatever topic, ask the teacher if there is anyone in the class that might need help. That is one way to make friends. If someone can't get their locker open, offer to help. If someone drops all their books, stop and help pick them up. Join after school activities like student council. Sometimes people grow apart. You ever watch Lizzie McGuire on Disney? She and Kate grew apart. She isn't in with the In-Crowd, she is her own person. Also, getting magazines like cosmo or ym or seventeen can get attention from other girls. Something as simple as wearing arm warmers are "in" and well following the trends can get you noticed. You are 14 so you can babysit now and make your own money. Don't worry so much about fitting in tho, because when you get to high school, people act more grown up and you meet new people from other schools. As for whats in.. the magazines will help. If you go to the grocery store with mom, let her shop as you go look at teen magazines and brush up on whats hot. You can do this at the library as well.
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