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What to Do.
My best friend is becoming one of those 'I dont care' people. She says that she doesn't care about school, her friends, her family, her life, her anything. And. I dont know what the hell to say to that kind of attitude. She can be obnoxious and she's very rude sometimes. We've been best friends for four years now. Two years ago her parents got divorced; one of the nastiest things ever. She's been off her rocker since, doing drugs and getting drunk - but occasionally, not obsessivley. She has no respect for her family. And I dont know what I'm supposed to do at all, should I even care? She certainly doesn't give a crap about anything.
I tried to help, a lot, but all she says is that its going through one ear and out the other and that it doesn't matter what I say because she knows she can change but she wont. I know most people have been through rough times and know that the ability to change is in their ability, but thats not a way to live. She doesn't even see the point of life - which goes back to religion, and if you're going to make some ignorant comment about that then I'm telling you now that I dont give a shit about your opinion about that because I'm not here to discuss whether this has to do with religion or not.
Also, please spare me if you're gonna say 'talk 2 her. hope i helped lol. rate me 5z plz.' I'll give you a one. >.>. Thanks. And just for generalness, we're both fifteen.
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Well that is a big deal! i know you dont want to jsut hear ' talk to her ' , i wouldnt either. soo if she keeps saying im not listening give her a short story about someone that has turned bad and died or something
i knew someone who grew up in a counrty and moved to america, they had no money so they moved to the ghetto, where if someone did something bad they did sinething 20 times worse, they all fought for drugs,and all that stuff, this person started to be like everyone else and hated himselve one day his freind showed him the gospal or w.e [[i think hte bible]] and from that day he changed..
idk if that will help your freind but maybe she was like that person, hating herself inside.. you never know, she might pretend to not care but she does,
hope i helped
yourzss truly
♥ Leanna
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If it was me and i tried and done what i could but didnt see no signs of changing or caring i would just let her be. Let her figure out that she is the one doing wrong not you. Cause a person can only try so hard then thats it the rest depends on the other person if that makes since.
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Although it may seem like your efforts are hopeless,if you really care about your friend you will keep at it. The ocassional drug use and drinking can only get worse over time and come to the point of threatening her life. She may not want to listen to you right now, but if you just keep at it hopefully she will start to come around. Be support of her and dont try to act like a nagging parent. Even if she isnt acting like it right now, Im sure somewhere inside she is wanting some help. Dont give up on her when she needs you most.
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