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Hey im Leanna♥ i Started this advice column becuase it seemed pretty cool.. i am thirteen, i go to Carver Junior High. I'll add more later once i get used to this whole thing

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My best friend is becoming one of those 'I dont care' people. She says that she doesn't care about school, her friends, her family, her life, her anything. And. I dont know what the hell to say to that kind of attitude. She can be obnoxious and she's very rude sometimes. We've been best friends for four years now. Two years ago her parents got divorced; one of the nastiest things ever. She's been off her rocker since, doing drugs and getting drunk - but occasionally, not obsessivley. She has no respect for her family. And I dont know what I'm supposed to do at all, should I even care? She certainly doesn't give a crap about anything.

I tried to help, a lot, but all she says is that its going through one ear and out the other and that it doesn't matter what I say because she knows she can change but she wont. I know most people have been through rough times and know that the ability to change is in their ability, but thats not a way to live. She doesn't even see the point of life - which goes back to religion, and if you're going to make some ignorant comment about that then I'm telling you now that I dont give a shit about your opinion about that because I'm not here to discuss whether this has to do with religion or not.

Also, please spare me if you're gonna say 'talk 2 her. hope i helped lol. rate me 5z plz.' I'll give you a one. >.>. Thanks. And just for generalness, we're both fifteen.

Well that is a big deal! i know you dont want to jsut hear ' talk to her ' , i wouldnt either. soo if she keeps saying im not listening give her a short story about someone that has turned bad and died or something

i knew someone who grew up in a counrty and moved to america, they had no money so they moved to the ghetto, where if someone did something bad they did sinething 20 times worse, they all fought for drugs,and all that stuff, this person started to be like everyone else and hated himselve one day his freind showed him the gospal or w.e [[i think hte bible]] and from that day he changed..

idk if that will help your freind but maybe she was like that person, hating herself inside.. you never know, she might pretend to not care but she does,
hope i helped
yourzss truly
♥ Leanna

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i have a boyfriend and we talked for a looooong time on friday and before we got off the phone he said he'd call me back saturday, and of course he didn't, i didn't think anything of it until yesterday. because last night he got online and i looked in his profile and it said "i love *suzie*" (the *'s are there because suzie isn't the name that was in there) and obviously..that's not my name. but then right after that was a little kind of joke statement. i don't know if i should think anything of it, because for all i know it could have been a joke. i didn't say anything to him about it...but what would you think it was? a joke or do you think he really likes someone else...

okay you def need to talk to him, it might just be a joke but every girl needs to be a little nervous about that stuff, yah know? soo i would ask him and btw are yuo in therE? also ask him why he didnt call yah back, maybe he was busy.
hope i helped
yours truly
♥Leanna

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ok. my friend is making me so mad. she lost her cheereleading uniform and since the last place she was at was at my house, she keeps saying she left it here. so i looked and looked all over the place and it WASNT here and i never saw it ever. so like every couple days she blows up and starts these BIG fights all about her uniform. its so annoying because i seriously DONT have her uniform. what do i do?!

Okay, I'm in the same situation right now too! If she doesnt believe you dont yell but tell her that its her responsibility to take care of her uniform and you dont have it, if she still doesnt believe you invite her over and tell her to check hersself, If she starts fights so easily maybe she isnt the best freind to have. Freinds are supposed to trust each other and stuff not be able to trust eachother
Hope ii Helped
Yours truly
♥Leanna

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OK so I have a group of friends..they're just school friends..it's been like this for 5 years now! I hate it..I want to go to the mall or hang out with them outside of school..but how? I can't just self invite myself..I can't invite them over to my house because of family reasons..but I want to get closer to them and be BEST friends with them..not school friends..what do i do?

[1] Talk it over
Dont exactly invite your self to hang out with them, just say maybe we can hang out sometime.. they will probobly hang out with you at the mall or something.. maybe if that doesnt work, try to meet them at a game or some activity.
hoped i helped
yours truly
♥ Leanna

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OK, One of my friends that I go out clubbing with is starting to annoy me. He is brilliant in every way, but everytime we go into the city, we take a taxi there and back and he always finds sneaky ways of getting out of paying for them.

For example, he'll say he'll just buy me a drink (and never does) or say he'll pay for it later, or just doesnt get out money to pay. Its starting to annoy me and it angers me.

We're going out again on Saturday but I need a way to make him realise that he has to pay and I'm not willing to, without seeming too petty.

Please give me advice!!

Well, what i would do, if i was in your shoes is talk to him about it, maybe in the taxi just tell him you are tired of him not paying for things and if he wants something to pay himself, another thing to do is just to go to the club and tell him you left your money back home and he has to pay, it might work!
Hoped to Help
Yours Truly
♥Leanna

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