Question Posted Thursday September 1 2005, 12:46 am
ok i was going out with this kid who lives 3 houses away from me we were going out for 2 days then i deiced to break up with him because i didnt want to go a long time then break up and not talk anymore because we use to be best friends...do you think what i did was right
ChOcOLoLo answered Thursday September 1 2005, 4:45 am: hey there! i personally understand that you want to be friends, but before moving on to another relationship, you need to find if that guy has potential, or if he's really boyfriend material and that he is going to be with you for a long time. If you don't classify love correctly, you'll get hurt, but also you may miss out on finding that perfect person. So be smart and find love correctly, and you'll surely find the right person for you. [ ChOcOLoLo's advice column | Ask ChOcOLoLo A Question ]
3HOLLYWOODxGLAM3 answered Thursday September 1 2005, 3:51 am: no i dont think it was right. go with your feelings.. you like him so continue dating him. you never know if you will have a bad relationship or not.. and even if you do.. dont you think the happiness would be worth it. [ 3HOLLYWOODxGLAM3's advice column | Ask 3HOLLYWOODxGLAM3 A Question ]
orphans answered Thursday September 1 2005, 3:14 am: if you think its whats right for you, go ahead. beacause he might just want to stay friends. who knows?
icey0990 answered Thursday September 1 2005, 2:22 am: no..i dont think breaking up and not talking anymore is the way to go..stay friends with him because a good friendship shoouldnt be lost over a failed romance
-meliss [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
mandawhy answered Thursday September 1 2005, 2:05 am: If that's what you really want, than yes. Obviously, you do not feel enough romantically for him, so what you did, in my opinion, was right. You're not leading him on, and you did the mature thing and did what you felt was right. Now, just remember, he probably is hurt. Make sure you express yourself as clear as you can if the subject comes up between the two of you, so that he understands that he means a lot to you, so much that you couldn't bare risking his friendship. Being lead on is one of the shittiest experiences in the world. [ mandawhy's advice column | Ask mandawhy A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.