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just wondering..
i cant understand why i cant attract any boys.Alot of my guy friends think im hot but they just think im not the girl a boy will go for as a girlfriend.i dont know whats wrong with me.if im friendly they think im desperate for friends if im not im a snob.i just cant seems to do it right.my girl friends who is less preetier seems to attract more boys.i just want to feel special sometimes.i think ill never will.
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hmm how about you act more slutty. pretty much guys like that. they like easy girls.
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I have the same problem as you and the problem is that we are losing our confidence when it comes to boys. You are trying to attract boys so that you feel special and then you start to want a boy to look your way so that you know isn't your looks and even after you see them stare you notice that none come up to you. I've been through this and still do. The problem is that when a boy looks at you like he may be interested or thinking about approaching you what do you do? If you put your head down and sort of hide then they may think you havr no confidence and/or think you are trying to hide from them and dont' wanna talk to them. If you don't hide but come straight up to them or just talk to them if they approach you then you may be coming on too strong. I found that the best thing to do is to stay true to yourself. Don't act any different then you would with a friend of yours or even someone you just met. Don't think that if you say something wrong then you'll lose their attention because that will only make you seem like you are scared and you aren't being fair to yourself. So give it time and don't worry, as you get older you'll realize that some guys are better as friends and when you are friends with guys they cna introduce you to their friends and maybe one of them will be it. So even if you don't make them your bf you can make them your good friend.
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First off, we all want to feel special to someone. Don't give up hope. With some people, it just takes some time before they find their special someone.
I'm curious about your confidence level. By your comments, I get the impression that your self-esteem is kind of low right now. Are you confident about yourself? Guys and girls alike go for the ones that are confident without being stuck on theirselves.
Since you said your guy friends think you're hot, perhaps that is the problem. The guys may feel intimidated by your looks and think they'll be rejected if they make a move.
You said you were friendly. That's always a good start. Are you the clingy friend type? While all of us want to be with someone special, we also need our own space. I'm happily married, but if my husband is around 24/7 he drives me crazy. I need my "me time" and my own space.
Don't give up hope. I know it doesn't seem like it now, but your special someone is out there somewhere. Maybe he just hasn't came into your life yet.
Good luck!
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just be yourself.
thats all i can say
dont act too relaxed and dont act to tense around boys,, just show like your having a gd time and friendly n out going then they will be flooding to ya
gd luck
emma xoxox
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It just might be that you can't spell or that you have no proper grammer.
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maybe you're difficult to approach? guys are weird sometimes, and they go for the girls that aren't so pretty so they don't need to face rejection. make yourself approachably. be very friendly and look interested. nothings wrong with you though, sometimes guys don't get their priorities straight. it depends on him really. juss look interested in him, er whoever and go with it. since your guy friends say you're hott, maybe you're intimidating to them? er maybe you seem 'one of the guys'. try stepping away from that to look for a bf.
good luck!♥
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