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so alone
suddenly i feel so alone
my cat hasnt ben sleeping in my room
my dog hasnt been asking me to walk her
my birds havnt been whistleing
and my mom hasnt been home
my mom is going on vacation for her b-day with out me
my dad works in brooklyn and gets home at 1 in the morning and has to leave at 6 in the morning
my sister isnt ever home && she treats me like crap
my friends havnt been inviting me over
you know what i mean, why do i feel so alone?!!?!? can you help me how to get with people
PS people arent alowed here with out a adult (i like by a lake and yeah)
i cant get to their house
they live too far away for their parents to drive me
my mom and dad have a job
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my sister hates meso she doesntdrive me places
i am never able to tlak to my family!
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My suggestion is - take some initiative and walk your dog, take some time to be around your dad, and invite your friends over with your friends' permission because then they'll invite you over.
Make sure you talk to your sister, too. Call your mom or dad while they're not at home and say hello or something. It's as easy as picking up the phone.
You just need to do your part in relating to these people.
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Why do you feel so all alone? May be what you should do is take improvement classes to better your self-esteem. Maybe take up hobbies and create a new you. May be try to find a way to get the family together one night out of the week, like maybe cook the supper for that night, after some practice if you don't know how to cook. May be come up with the pieces of paper in the jar that will get your family to draw closer together, like games and pizza, movie and popcorn night. Also, look into drawing closer to God, He'll never leave you!
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there will be times in your life where youre gonna feel very alone. i feel the same way a lot of the time. just remember the happy times and know that soon your mom will be back home, your dad will be home, and your sister will come home and all of you will be together as a happy family. sometimes it's good to be away from each other for some time that way when you come back to each other youre so happy and excited to see everybody. Also, maybe you could just call your friends and have a little get together or something-? maybe have them pick you up at your house and go to the movies, or just take a walk to talk about everything. Just know that youre not alone. there are tons of people just like you who are feeling exactly like you are.
Plus, school is coming up soon, right? Youll be with all of your friends then and some days youll wish you had your alone time that you have now.
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don't be afraid to try and talk to your parents when they are home. your sister shouldn't treat you like crap, especially if you are nice to her. does your father ever have a day off of work? maybe you could ask him to do something with you on a day he isn't working or busy. tell him and/or your mother/sister that you feel alone and like nobody pays any attention to you. school should be starting soon, if it hasn't already, so you will be able to see your friends there! if your parents/sisters/friends don't listen to you when you try and tell them that you are alone, find something else to occupy yourself with. do something around the house, call your friends, watch tv, listen to music, get online. also, you could always try counselling if you feel you are becoming depressed b/c of your situation. or is there another adult that you could talk to? maybe an aunt or a grandmother that you could confide in. don't worry, sooner or later things will get better. Good Luck!
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