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love and friends
my best male friend and i have been friends for 8 years he is my everything i love him as a friend, and anything else you can love your friend as he is one of the greatest people i know i thought iwas in love in love with him but then i met my boyfriend and he is one of the sweetest guys i know but things are changing between me and my boyfriend its like everytime we talk he gets this sound in his voice as if its hurting him to talk to me my best friend would never do that to me he would be honest and upfront with me about how hes feeling i love my boyfriend but i have strong feelings 4 my friend my friend alredy knows how i feel about him so what should i do? sorry so long
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Well if you think that the feelings for your friend are stronger than the feelings that you feel for your boyfriend, i think that you should be upfront to your boyfriend and tell him about the feelings that your having for your friend. Uou need to be honest with him, because its the worst thing not to be. Talk to your friend also, if hes a really good friend maybe he can direct you in the way to go, but since he knows you have feelings for him, he might tell you something to sway your decision his way. Just take a step back and think about your feelings and if the feelings for the friend are really strong, then I think you should tell your boyfirend and end it with him, because that wouldnt be fair to be with someone and have stronger feelings for someone else. =)
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If this boyfriend of yours is not treating you well and really mean to you then you should probably be with your male best friend of eight years but also think about how this could affect your relationship with him if you too one day might break up but it's a 50%chance you too might be friends again because it will be difficult to see each other the same way when you were friends.Make sure you find out who you have more feeling because you might make a mistake that you may regret so take your time and when your ready say what you decided to talk about with them.
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what you should do is see if your friend feels the same way as you maybe you to should hook up.. i mean if you feel strongly about it then you should.. if you oyfriend is acting werid talk to him about it and ask him what is up?? dont let him hide anything from you. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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Hey Hun! Does your best friend feel for you the way you feel for him? If you dont know (since yall are close) you need to ask him. If things are changing for the worse in your relationship and if your not happy I say you should talk to him and then if your not happy then I say break up with him. But I would say if you best friend says he likes you then I would go for him.
Hope I Helped!
Britt
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