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big problem with a friend (who is a girl)
my problem is my friend who is girl, we both work in a same office and recently only(about 3& 4 month) we had become close friends (well i was atleast) in this three month we used to talk about everything, eat together with our group
but recently because of my nature i started carrying for to much or more u can say carrying like sister(my age is 22 and she is 30 un married)
but insead of what i feel about her she has taken the wrong impression of what i feel for her
i had a meeting with her told her told her my feeling
but she said she is feeling Uncomfortable with our Relationships and told me not to call her
and for work related mail her
i know y is she felling that way because of me as i said before i starded to care for her interfere with her life i even told her to give me a miss call on my cell when she reaches home
and once we had gone for a movie on friendship day
and when she did not sit next to me i made a huge promblen between the movie i was on my cell messaging any things to my friends and when she asked me i told her u were not sitting next to me thats y
so please help me i dont love her
i really like her has a sister and a friend
And will always do
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I think that you need to respect the space that she needs. She really needs time to figure out her feelings towards you and she needs to do this alone and this requires some time. You need to respect her space and you need to let her grow. She has a right and she really deserves it. Just tell her that she really is just a good friend, like a sister, and that you'll respect her space. I know that it will be difficult since she is such a good friend and all but she needs to know that you'll respect her wishes and give her the distance she needs. And if she doesn't want to talk with you anymore , respect it and move on. That is just the way people deal with things. Especially women. Move on and don't let her get to you. Just try to be understanding and you know just be real with her. If she's too immature not to address this directly, then trust me, you could do a lot better .
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