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my sister is so unsupportive
Today I was watching my cousin's sweet 15 (quincenera) and I'm having one very soon but I felt as though her is going to be better then mines because our families for some reason compete over everything their is to compete about. Well my mom wants me to cause a court and In mines their is like 3 couple cause I'm not trying to go through all that stress about keeping up with 30 people. Well my sister is one of them and she still doesnt have a partner and I ask her and remind her to get someone cause the date is comming in a month and a month does pass by past. And then she bust out with some shit like "I'm better then you" and "Your nothing without me!" I don't know what to do cause I've tried getting her a partner and their is always a problem with that person so they end up not wanting to do it.So she keeps screwing up and I'm going to have to hear all this shit from my family about the dance and what not which I'm not trying to hear. I don't know what to do all she does is put me down and make me unsecure about how everything is going to work out and she's only worried about herself and LESS about others.Please help I don't know what to tell her so she can change because all she ever does is think about herself and herself only.She's is 13 years old but acts like a 3 yr old. Please help!
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I think maybe your mom will probably end up arranging a partner for her. She isn't mature enough to handle it herself apparently. Your mom needs to know what sort of problem you are having with her before it is too late to deal with it.
I would strongly suggest reminding her that her quincinera is coming up in a few years, and how would she feel if the tables were turned.
Please try to have fun. I know it is a very formal event and extremely important to you, but you cannot control everything and every one. Part of growing up is dealing with adversity in times of high stress.
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Sit down your family, and explain the situation, calmly. If you can make them (especially your sister) understand where your coming from,and give ideas to what could be better and what you could do to make them better, things might change. I hope tihngs change for the better.
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