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hi, i have this friend, and she always gets mad at me and people tell me all the time she that she says im ugly and always talks behind my back when shes suposedly NOT mad at me... but when she is mad at me, i always act like i care. and i did. and she would get madder and madder at me all the time. now that im tired of caring and she knows that i dont care ne more, she gets mad at me and then forgives me for stuff i didnt even do!! so ive just ignored her and the other day she asked if i wanted to be friends with her or best friends. i didnt know what to say and i certainly didnt wanna hurt her feelings. so i said just good friends. but i dont really wanna be her friend when i know that she talks about me behind my back.but i know that if i tell her that, she will deny all the stuff people told me and are still telling me and get madder and make my life really miserable. i really dont know what to do. and alot of people dont like her. im not the only one. but she makes those other peoples life miserable too. even more miserable than shes made mine. i dont wanna be one of those people. please help me.
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sounds like your friend isnt a good friend at all. i once had a friend like that...every time i asked her if she really sed something about me, she denyed it. even tho i KNEW she said it. it just depends on if you REALLY like this girl! if you really want to be her friend give her another chance. and if you DONT want to be her friend, and deep down you know shes lying to you...just avoid her...and as you do this she might try to hang out with you alot! but keep making up excuses not to go, or tell her you have plans. bacause eventually she wont want to hang out with you at all anymore! if she asks you why you're doing it, tell her the truth! even if SHE denies it, you know it's true....right?i hope my advice can help ya!
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