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hey our names are ellyn&annie&SARA BEARA!! we are 7th graders that hang out n stuff and we thot advicenator was rly rly cool so we just had to make one!
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hi i have a crush on one of yall and i dont know how to tell you? what would you suggest?

-- crushing on annie (link)
hey why arent you a lucky ducky! haha this is annie! but unless your brian i could really careless who you are...sorry! :)! (by the way brians my boyfriend so ya not caring...hehe!)

sorry i cant really help....


annie


hi, i have this friend, and she always gets mad at me and people tell me all the time she that she says im ugly and always talks behind my back when shes suposedly NOT mad at me... but when she is mad at me, i always act like i care. and i did. and she would get madder and madder at me all the time. now that im tired of caring and she knows that i dont care ne more, she gets mad at me and then forgives me for stuff i didnt even do!! so ive just ignored her and the other day she asked if i wanted to be friends with her or best friends. i didnt know what to say and i certainly didnt wanna hurt her feelings. so i said just good friends. but i dont really wanna be her friend when i know that she talks about me behind my back.but i know that if i tell her that, she will deny all the stuff people told me and are still telling me and get madder and make my life really miserable. i really dont know what to do. and alot of people dont like her. im not the only one. but she makes those other peoples life miserable too. even more miserable than shes made mine. i dont wanna be one of those people. please help me.

-friendship confused- (link)
dear friendship confused-

sounds like your friend isnt a good friend at all. i once had a friend like that...every time i asked her if she really sed something about me, she denyed it. even tho i KNEW she said it. it just depends on if you REALLY like this girl! if you really want to be her friend give her another chance. and if you DONT want to be her friend, and deep down you know shes lying to you...just avoid her...and as you do this she might try to hang out with you alot! but keep making up excuses not to go, or tell her you have plans. bacause eventually she wont want to hang out with you at all anymore! if she asks you why you're doing it, tell her the truth! even if SHE denies it, you know it's true....right?i hope my advice can help ya!

p e a c e

Ell0!


okay i need some advice here. i went out with this guy about 10 times, and most of the time he wasn't the best boyfriend. but i still love him & i don't know why..& now people are saying he still likes me..but he still talks to me about liking other girls..is he trying to make me jealous or does he really like these girls? & another question is should i get back with him..because i really like himm..i dont know what to do..HELP!! (link)
ellyn here-

first of all, guys can be VERY confusing...but they probably think the same thing about us! so instead of just wondering about everything the whole time, or trying to give him any complicated signs, be straight with him. tell him how you feel. and ask him whether he likes you or not, and tell him to be honest. guys lie a WHOLE lot! but then again so do girls! so if he really DOES like you, i would give him another chance. 10 times seems like a lot to go out with some one....it makes it sound like he was a terrible bf to have to break up with 10 times! but it could go both ways. you wouldn't ask him out or say yes 10 times if you didn't REALLY like this guy. it sounds like yall just have some problems to sort out, but i think things will be okay! tell us if you need any more help!

-ellyn-


hey, there is this guy in my class and i really like him like REALLY like him soo much. but he is one of my best friends!! we talk everyday and we hang out occasionally, but he has a gf and i think i have no chance with him, and im going to tell him i like him...is that a smart move?
-nacho...
PS:i will be replying often for ur help (link)

dear nacho,

so ya like the guy? no bigee! liking isnt a crime, and you cant really control who your crushin on. so tell him! but dont sound obssessed or like your in love, because if word spreads to his gf, you could get into some trouble. tell him that you understand he has a gf and everything, and your definetly happy for them, but you just thot itd be better if he knew...and that you didnt want to keep any secrets from him. even if you dont have a chance with him NOW theres plenty of time in your life. he'll break up with her eventually (or the other way around) so why fight it? everything will be okay in the end.

**good luck**
ELLYN!


have you ever had a friend that thinks she can get with any guy and lies to her best friends and u know it and you want to tlel them but you promised!well i need help now and like you cant get her to stop acting like all that. and treats you so mean! om my gosh i need some advice!!!


first time i dont know??? just i need some i am weird like that i know! (link)
hey-

friends do that sometimes, i kno how you feel...the best way to handle this problem is to leave them alone for a while...find other friends to hang out with for awhile..and chill out about...towards the very end of the summer try hanging out with her again...and if shes STILL lying and trying to hook up with every guy she knows, try to talk to her about it...eventually shell get over this phase...you just have to be patient!

hope we helped,

annie&ellyn!


hey theres this really wierd girl her name is morgan uber n she keeps hangin out with me n its soooo annoying! lol JK JK! haha lol! this is katie! ilu morgan! i think its so awesome that yal r giving advice n stuff! awesome blossom! well i gotsta go!! ((i didnt really need advice)) i love yall annie ellyn n SURA! talk to yall later!

*smooches*
KATIE BOWER (link)
hey its ellyn! thx for admiring our beautiful site! we know it rox everyones sox off! haha! for anyone else readin this believe katie and morgan they know best! we have awesome advice! if anyone needs advice we are here!


hey guys.. i need advice on um haha i dont need any but yall are the coolest! mwaa!! haha but im just bored..

xoxo
-morgan- (link)
hahaha its Annie!

well whenever you DO need advice, ask us and well be here for you!

xoxo,
annie


i think my gf is a lesbo what should i do
(link)
if your gf was a lesbian, she wouldnt be your girlfriend....there was only one exception to that rule and it was with ross on friends....haha...what makes you think this? what does she say or do to hint that shes a lesbian? write back please!


there is this girl i like but she doesnt like me this is nicky-poo what should i do. (link)
this is annie, ellyn, and sara!!!

dear nicky-poo,

the way to get THIS girl to like you is to tell her shes pretty not hot cuz then the girl will think you like her for her personality not as much as you like her body! notice the little things you like about her like what shes good at! bring up things that yall have laughed about in the past and also your inside jokes!

GOOD luck with this girl,
hugs and kisses,
annie, ellyn, and sara


This girl who I'm not friends with has one of my favorite shirts. She 'borrowed' it without asking. When i asked her if i could have it back, she said "not a chance, now go away." I also asked if she could give it to another girl who were both friends with, she she could give it back to me. She said no to that too. Now every time i suggest something, she cusses at me. I really miss my shirt, and im not sure what to do. Thanks for listening.
--Sick of this. (link)
dear sick of this,

the person who stole your shirt doesnt seem like a very nice person. the best way to solve this problem is to tell an adult. for instance, your mom or dad. tell them its your favorite shirt and you really would like it back. it's not rly telling on the girl, just taking back whats rightfully yours. she knows its yours, an she already admitted it. so its not like she can lie about it now. see if your parentts can talk to her parents about it. what shes doing is wrong, and i'm sure her parents will agree. if your thinking "oh great! if i do this, she'll get mad at me for telling on her..." don't worry. just tell your parents to tell HER parents to take the shirt away from her and give back to you WITHOUT telling the girl why the mom took it... shed never know how you got it bac or have any way of getting mad at you. i really really hope i helped....that was a toughy...haha...good luck

wishin you the best,

eLLyN!


I like these three guys and only two of them kno and one has a bf..how should i talk to them more..i feel akward around the two that kno i like them...what should i do? (link)
-*ellyn&annie here*-

dear player girl,

i personally think you should only base who you like on one person...the one who you like more you should give *special* attention to, and you should just plain forget about the one with the girlfriend. there is really no hope in getting him...would you really want your heart broken if some girl stole your guy? how do you think she would feel. if you like the other two the same, pick the one who is most likely to like you back...make sure you think about your desicion. make a list of the pros and cons of each boy..hopefully it will help you, also you might try not basing it on which one is hotter but the one with the better personality.

good luck,
love,
ELLYn&anniE

write back if you need more help...


Most of the girls at my school are leaving for seventh grade, and most of my friends will be gone! in a way, it's good to get rid of any ppl hoo want to cause trouble or something, but next year just won't b as fun! there will only be 4 girls in each advisory! I'm so worried about ending up with none of my friends and a bunch of B.O.ys who i dont like. should i just be quiet all year, or make some new friends, or try to keep in touch with my old buds? I'm confused with this dilema!!
Miss Lonely at St. Johns (link)
dear miss lonely,

i know exactly how to solve your problem...you see not too long ago (about a year and a half ago) i switched schools...it was SO tough leaving my friends...but i fit right in with the people at my new school...and it was easier than i thot it wud be to keep in touch with old buds...but your case is different... i think you shud keep in touch with your friends the best you can...invite them over when your bored or when your plans have been canceled with other friends....and instead of being quiet all year, try to make new friends from other schools! then you can introduce them to your friends at st. johns... if your still not having enough fun...maybe you shud get a bf...keep your eye out for special guys, especially this summer...its never to late in the year for a guy! i rly hope this helped!

sincerely,
the advice master ellyn!


im 13! and my parents dont think i'm old enough to have a bf, even though ALL of my friends have one....and i rly like the guy...how can i get through 2 them! how can i get them to understand that i am growing up?

plz help me,

boyfriendless! (link)
-*annie here*-

dear boyfriendless,


tell your parents that you are growing up and that times have DEFINATLY changed since they were growing up, also tell them that being boyfriend and girlfriend doesnt mean making out and kissing, its just a guy and a girl who like eachother more than friends. but also tell your parents that you respect their authority, you should leave it up to them to decide. hopefully this will allow you to have a boyfriend. if not just wait another year, GOOD LUCK WITH THE PARENTALS!

love,
annie with ellyn's help


me&my bf keep on argueing about gay and stupid stuff and i really just wanna dump him and get over it but i just dont know!!

-help needed (link)
dear help needed person!

take him to a mavs game and then kick him in the balls and say its over.
jk that was my friend BRIAN (skoolisfofools) and nick (djkenny23) heres the REAL answer!

ok...well try to talk to him about it...see why you keep arguing and of u cant come to a conclusion and you STILL argue, then you have to tell him the truth...that you dont like him anymore and that its over...

hope you get ur problemo solved
love,ellyn! (and brian and nick)


my best friend has been blowing me off lately...she always says she's busy....i call back later, and she is still home..how do i talk to her?

please help,
lost friend girl (link)
annie here-

dear lost friend girl,

i think that maybe if you talk to the girl about this MAYBE she'll tell you whats going on.. if she doesnt maybe u should just blow her off and find new friends

GOOD LUCK,
annie

P.S. write back if you need anymore HELP!




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