ok so ive been dating a guy for like 3 and a half months now and hes not too reliable always going off to race cars and leave me to hang out with his friends and so i met a guy and we have alot in common i dont want to persue a relationship with this guy just a friend ship but when i told my boyfriend he flipped and thinks other wise then i got an email from him saying"i think i am just gunna go somewhere....i dont know where, but i am going, somewhere where no one can talk to me, where i can spend some time alone. i dont know when i will be back, or if i will be back. if i am on tonight at he normal time i am on, i would consider yourself lucky" and it really made me mad i sent him an email saying how much i hated him for what hes done to me and playing with my heart like that and if hes not on by midnight were over please someone help i dont want to lose him but i feel like im stuck where i am right now plus high school is starting in a couple of weeks and i really want to get a fresh start sorry this is so long its just confusing and really complicated thanx in advance!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? juneybug6183 answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 2:58 pm: sounds to me like he doesnt want you to leave him and he's trying to play a guilt trip. It's usually just a way to get someone to give in to you. Don't let emails like that bother you for a second. I've gotten from guys myself. I would recommend you do what you feel is right in your heart and the hell with the rest. You can't make everyone happy so just try to make yourself happ.
splappythewalrus answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 3:27 am: ok yea this kid is a retarded jerk who is trying to make you feel bad for having a friend that is a guy! my advice to you is to try to talk to your boyfriend and really see why its such a problem to have a friend thats a guy. and if he still flips then i would dump him and be friends with that one guy!
ari02 answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 12:14 am: well i think you should have juss ended things right then and there cause no one deserves to be played with like that if he cant trust u thts not right no trust=no relationship =] so like juss get over him no matter how hard its probably gonna be but you will always have your friends to support you 100% if they are your true friends
Razhie answered Monday August 1 2005, 9:19 pm: You've already decided you don't want a relationship with this guy, so don't make empty threats about it being over. It's already over
You cannot control what stupid things he says or does, just your response to them. So stop responding, stop talking to him and giving him more chances to play with your heart and threaten you.
Cut this guy off, maybe you can be friends in the future, but for now you are only hurting eachother with your silly mind games. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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