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i want a "friend with benefits"?
ok so im 17/f and i just want a guy that im friends with most of the times, but sometimes we hook-up or do sexual stuff or whatever. how would i ask a guy to have this kind of relationship with me?
dont tell me that it's a bad idea or i'll get too emotionally involved or whatever because you're wrong. i really want this, but i need a way to ask a guy to do it with me.
thanks....i rate HIGH!
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when your hanging out sometime bring up the subject of summer hookups..
like..
-"what do you think of friends with benefits?"
(he answers}
..'so what do you think about friends with benefits with me?' then maybe lean in and kiss him
or..if your the reaaly shy type get a guy friend who is friends with the guy you have in mind to mention it ..be like "yeah so what do you think of (your name) as a FWB type thing?"
oo0or..
you can just go for it when your hangin out and the moment is right..then afterwards you can talk about being FWB's
i hope all this helped..have great fun with your summer hookup !
-MELissA-
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Thats horribly sick and sad.
But i'm sure 95% of men would jump at the chance if you are physically appealing.
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hey, well first of all, i dont think there is anything wrong with having a friend with benefits if you make it clear from that start that thats what you both want. i actually have one at the moment<what else is a single girl suppost do do?hah>. but anyways, if you have a particular guy in mind, when your at parties or get togethers or whatever start being a little flirty and when you are talking to him, say things like god i wish i could just have a friend that i could just hook up with but not get into a relationship with and from there im sure he will get the hint and i dont know about you but i have never met a guy that would find that to be a totally good arrangement. but i would have to recommend that you dont do this with an ex becuase feelings will then get involved. hope i helped.
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In my experience that sort of relationship takes alot of talking first. You and the guy have to be totally clear on what it means. You also need to trust the guy to behave responsbly and not expose you to STDs or the such.
Seriously, take it slow when you find a guy who you think might go for this kinda relationship. Don't just talk about it once. Take a few days to think about it, plan it, use protection.
A good way to start to talk about it is to ask the guy what he thinks of sex. Is it only for marriage? Is it okay to have sex without love? Is it okay to sleep with a few people at once? This will give you a good idea whether he'd be up for what you want.
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