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social ladder
ok... so say.. im not the most prettiest girl in the school.. but still is cute..... everyone says im so cute.. but im going into the 8th grade.... i want to have a boyfriend.. and to go up the social ladder.. im not a geek or a nerd... im like inbetween.. like i have my own group.. but i think it is breaking.....like.. im a little chubby.. but noone really gos by weight... they go like for faces and personalitys.. (usually sluts) but like.... how can i do whay i want without becoming a slut..????????? like some outfits ideas and hair styles?????? or something??? like.. i wear what is usally comfortable for me.. like jeans and a sweatshirt... and in the spring sweatpant capris (like active wear) i dunno...... so please give me some tips?? thankz...
Rissa <333
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What the hell are you talking about? Noone refers to it as the "social ladder" You sound like a slut. So my advice is to become one, because if you begin to fall into the popularity trend, you will be a slut, whether you want to or not. So be yourself or go emo. Have a nice day.
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Here is some good advice. Stop caring. Your social rank in school means nothing. Those popular people have no more friends than you do. When you get out of high school, and say you have achieved "popular" status, what then? Its all over. No one cares if you were popular or not in the real world.
All they know is, you work for them, they pay you, here is your check.
They dont care about your past. They care about what you'll do for their future. Thats all.
Your clothing is just another fake image you're trying to create to get to the top. Yet another image created by a mass opinion.
You need to see by the propaganda you've bought into. Learn to get along with the people you meet. Learn that the people at the top are the same as you. Matter of fact, the people at the top could be more boring than anyone you currently know.
Or dont. I dont really care. Do what you want.
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First of all, dont change your appearance for other people. Stay true to yourself!!! It's cool to wanna go up socially just don't force it too fast. Take things as they come. And for a boyfriend, start by getting a few really close guy friends. Things will probably go from there. And just because you change your hair style or clothes doesn't mean you're going to be a slut!!! It depends on what you change it into!!! As long as you dont want to become a slut, chances are you wont!!!
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