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Death in the family
Sorry this is such a long question but I need help:
Ok my grandma died in April but why am I still crying about her? Every little thing about her makes me cry. None of my family members are crying anymore. She has been close to all of us and will always be dear to my heart. She came in her little cart because she couldn't walk just to see my sister play a softball game. She died so suddnely. She died at a Grizzlies game and that was the best place for her to die. How do I stop crying and thinking about her everytime I hear her name or think about her?
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Aww, thats really sad.
Well I can tell that your grandma made a huge impact in your life, unlike me i didnt know my grandparents that much.
Maybe you should do something that'll take your mind off of it.
You just have to think that she isnt coming back and be strong and know that you were lucky to have her for the time you had her.
It's hard losing a family member, it feels weird knowing that you're never going to see them ever again, but soon enough time will heal your wound
Good Luck and leave one in my inbox if you still need help.
x3Teresa
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its ok tp be sad and cry bc u have something important thats going on...talk to your parents and maybe see a therapist. i read a book called perfect and the girls dad died and every night she hear's her mom cry about it...i highly doubt your the only one that feels that way, so talk to someone in yiur family...hope i helped
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ok u will never forget her and you shouldnt but try to think of all the good things that she did and just try to think of her as never relle dying but as just not gonna see her b/c she will never leave your heart and she shouldnt
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alright i know exactly how you feel. my grandpa died in feburary. i was very very close with him. he died of cancer. and when i see a red carnation or a red rose i think of him. the silliest things remind me of him and i still cry too. but you have to think, your grandma is still with you. shes watching over you! shes in heaven watching you be sad. the best thing you can do is to keep in mind that shes happy and she wants you to be happy
keep smiling
-laney :o)
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I'm sorry for her dying. You said you were close to her and you still mourning is really acceptable. Let time run its course on you and remember everything good about her that you know and hold onto her memory and in time you will find relief from her death, trust me on that because that is what happened to me when my great grandmother died. She was the oldest in my family and had Alzheimers and the time I got to spend with her was very precious to me and when she died I drew into a really deep withdraw and wasn't the same for a good 2 months afterward. Just let time run it's course with you and in time you will feel better about her death and stop crying about her, trust me. Hope this helps.
-Ryan
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Aww. . . I'm sorry she died. But your still crying because she played a really important part in your life. And the answer to your ? is that you will never get over it completely because you loved her very much and you guys did a lot of things together while you were growing up. Just make yourself busy go to classes like art or dance! I'm sure that will help you! If it doesn't you'll get over it but not completely you just need some time that's all! Best Wishes!
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well...THERES NOTHING RELLY TO MAKE YOU STOP CRYING AND ITS FINE THAT YOUR CRYING I STILL CRY ABOUT MY GRANDMA THAT DIES LIKE 3 YEARS AGO!! EVERYBODY MISSES THEM BUT SOME SHOW IT MORE THAN OTHER! HOP I HELPED!
X0X SHANNON
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Your grandmother loved you, and you love her. That's why you still cry. You'll miss her and love her for the rest of your life. Oh, after a while you won't cry as often, maybe not at all...but you'll still miss her as much as ever.
Death's an awfully hard thing. We all deal with it as best we can. But it still hurts.
Give it time, and the pain will be less sharp. But it will always feel strange, sometimes, that she's not there to talk to or to hug.
I'm sure she wouldn't want you to cry all the time. But by remembering her and thinking about her sometimes, you're keeping her memory alive. And that's important.
Don't worry about the crying. It will pass. An active grieving period of a year isn't unusual, when you lose a close and beloved relative.
If you're crying so often that you can't function, though, or if six months from now you're still crying more often than once a month or so, you might need to talk to a grief counselor. They should be able to help you find ways to manage your sadness.
You have my sympathy.
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Everyone mourns in their own ways. While one person may cry just for the funeral and put it aside afterwards, there is no reason why you should have to. And it's okay to think about her and miss her, she was an important part of your life. You just have to try to remember the goods times you had with her and things she liked to do. That way, instead of unhappy tears, the tears will be happy. She lived a long full life and has earned her reward. Yes, It's hard for those of us that are left behind but we will meet up with them again.
*hugs* Good luck to you.
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im sorry to hear that..its okay to cry about a lost loved one..its perfectly normal..you'll eventually get over the crying..you might never stop thinking about her or ever stop missing her..but you'll stop crying sooner or later so cheer up! keep in touch!
hope i helped
<3 brandi
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