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Question Posted Wednesday July 27 2005, 12:56 am

my boyfriend cheated on me with my friends so to the people who have already helped me a lil more plz he chetedon me with 2 of my friendsshjould i still be friends with them or no cause one of them is still going put with him


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cailoisa answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 8:01 am:
Did they know he was your boyfriend? If so, you might not want to be friends with them anymore. It seems pretty clear to me that they cannot be trusted, and that's the basis of friendship. Also, it seems that they don't care for your feelings very much, and staying friends with them might set you up for more hurt from them in the future. However, if they've always been great friends and this was the only slip-up they've ever done, you might want to think about trying to talk things through. I would just cut them loose though.

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karenR answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 7:35 am:
That is kind of up to you but, They aren't very good friends if they go stealing your boyfriend. Sounds like you need to fire the whole bunch of them and get new friends. :)

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Mackenzie answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 4:00 am:
I think if you forgive them you're simply showing your approval of their poor behavior. What kind of friends would try to destroy something you hold very dear to you? You tell me, what kind of friends are they if they can so easily hurt you and try to damage something that brings you happiness?? None worth holding onto, that's for shore...

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Solaris answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 3:42 am:
I would drop them. If they arent willing to stay loyal to you, then there is nothing worth it to keep it going. I suggest forgetting about the friends, and the ex. Move on and be happy. uoi dont need them!

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KristinaD10 answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 3:18 am:
I wouldn't be friends with them because they dont have respect for you or themselves..they arn't your friends if they did stuff with your boyfriend and had your boyfriend cheat on you with them i wouldn't be friends with them but then again it depends on who started it and how it came along...hope i helped

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