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I'm a girl, I'm fourteen. I'm in somewhat of a friendship triangle. I recently met someone who is now my best friend, and we got close really quickly and spend a lot of time together. However, her other best friend got into a serious realtionship about the same time us two got close. Now the other best friend wants to hang out with my best friend more, and I am quite certain it's because she's drifing away from her boyfriend. I know it's ridiculous to expect my friend to choose, but sometimes I just feel like I'm being mistreated. Like my best friend will blow me off for the other one so she doesn't feel bad about how close we are. I've been in situations like this before, but no one has ever been really able to help me. Sorry this is long and obnoxious.
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♥No I totally understand, it's not obnoxious. There really isn't much you can do sadly. You've just got to tough it out, it's part of being a teenager. Pretty much everyone goes through this, whether they make it noticable or not. Give this other girl a chance, maybe the 3 of you can be best friends. If you really just don't like her, wait it out, she might be temporary until she gets a new boyfriend. I know saying "talk to your friend" is the RIGHT advice to give, but of course it really is just going to make matters worse you know? I would say your best bet is to just try and make friends with the other girl. Next time your best friend blows you off, say something like "well why can't we all hang out together?". If you need anymore help, ask as much as you want, I like to help.
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