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My BF is 2-timing me
I dont have exact proof...but my friend told me she thinks he likes her. She doesn't like him though, he's dropping hits like smiling --- hitting on her! And i even saw them. It's ridiculous -- what do I do to get over it? PLEASE ANSWER --- Will r8 high!!!
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Okay well really you should talk to your friend and ask her to tell him that she isnt into him and see what he saids like if he saids no but i like you alot to her then you should dump him, dont even waste your time talking to him if he likes her more then you cause you cant change love. and if he tells ur friend he was never hitting on her and he loves you then ur safe.
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In my part of town I'd just send my sisters to give him the old duke and dutchess if you see what I mean. I think you should be more subltle, honey trap this fool. Get your friend to give him a tasteful flash of her tits and see if he responds, if he does pounce on him and deliver a swift boot to his balls-that'll learn em
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You're probably overlooking this matter. Just cuz someone smiles at someone doesn't mean they like them.
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Ok, I'm a guy, so let me try to put in some male explanation into all this. First, I'm not trying to defend him, just trying to put this in a different light. Second, what applies to me does not apply to every guy. Let's get on with this then. Is he just smiling on her, and you infer that as hitting on her, or is he smiling AND hitting on her, two completely different scenarios. If smiling is considered flirting, then I've flirted with hundred girls over my short 18 years of life, few successfully, I might add. Perhaps he is just trying to be friendly with her, after all, you did say your friend doesn't like him. I had that exact same problem with my first girlfriend and her best friend. The girl actually went so far as to push me in my pool! Had to take off my shirt and shoes to retrieve my glasses, forgetting that I had my dad's cell phone in my pocket. Anyway, your boyfriend could just be trying to get your friend to like him as a person. It is all too common for couples to split because of best friends clashing with boyfriends or girlfriends. My advice is this, gather your evidence properly before acting on it. Just because your friend says that she thinks he likes her doesnt mean that he is two-timing you. Try talking to your other friend to see if this is an isolated incidence, or possibly ask one of them to flirt with him, just to rate his reaction. Don't jump to unsupported conclusions is probably the best hint of insight I can give you. Good luck with whatever happens. Feel free to update me with the situation, or ask me for further help!
Best Wishes, Jordan
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you should ask your boyfriend about it and see what he says. if he says he doesn't then tell him it bothers you that he flirts with your friend. if he says he does like her then dump him! if he continues to flirt with her after you have said something then dump him.
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Im going to try and decipher this...
"He is dropping hints, like smiling - That is hitting on her!"
If that is correct.
Then I have hit on hundreds of thousands of people.
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