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am i abusive
i find myself hitting guys everytime they make fun of me, dont listen, or for being rude and sometimes other girls. I know i don't hit them hard i don't try to but i do it alot. so am i abusive? how can i stop?
THANX
-twiSted
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Every time you find yourself about to hit someone, just think, "OK, I don't want to hit people because it hurts them." and then, well, DON'T HIT THEM!! duhhh!!!!
peace,love,&BECCA <3
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I dun think your abusive but maybe you should try to control your anger a little more!! Ok hope i helped!*~*MUAH*~*
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Think before you act or keep doing it, one day someone is going to smack you back twice as hard, then youll learn your lesson.
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no your not abusive its just sometimes it hurts your feelings and thats how you react its perfectly normal just when you feel like hitting them dont stop and think
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Well I'm a guy that has been around a few girls that do this. It is Something that bothers guys a great deal because there is nothing they can really do back. But im Glad you really want to stop But the thing that would help you to stop is to just think Before you Do it. Think If i was the boy would i want this happening to me. and maybe if you just get that in your head it'll calm down your reactions. Thanks For your Interest In Stopping. No your not Abusive Either.
Talk to me Anytime Irishdude;)
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I don`t think you`re abusive, but maybe it`s more of a nervous reaction. Not that you`re nervous or anything, but it`s just an automatic thing you do to signal them to sorta stop. Next time someone gets on your nerves or whatever, just simply say "Stop it okay." and if they don`t get the point, just walk away so you don`t hit them. If you need anything else, feel free to ask =] Hope I`ve Helped ♥
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It doesnt mean that you`re abusive.. But it probably get on their nerves after a while, so I suggest stopping.. You don`t want them to get mad at you for it, or really hurt them. Next time they make fun of you, just give them a mean look or laugh it off. Because wouldn`t you feel guilty if you really did hurt them ?
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hahah!!!!!!! Roll with Nick's answer.. "tough love", man!! :)
I realize the fact that every NOW and THEN a guy could use a nice hard backhand, just don't overdo it. You wouldn't want THEM hitting YOU, now would you?? =X
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if you say you dont do it hard then i dont think ur abusive but after a while it can get annoying so try to tell them to listen or stop well i hoped i helped and if you have ne more quistions drop em in my inbox
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