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what do i do?
i met this girl about a year ago and we became BEST friends. like we could talk about everything and never get sick of eachother. shes a junior so it was cool to have someone older to look up to. I said something i wasent supposed to and we were in a fight for 5 months then we finally became friends again. In april and may we were wicked close and everything was good. She even brought me on vacation with her to NC. And now when things are getting better.. shes moving there =/ And the sad thing is when i was there i bought her house with her. Idk what i can say to her to after all the times i screwed up =/ and i dont want her to forget about me when she leaves. In 3 weeks... what do i say?
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Tell her your feelings. If you have been good friends for such a long time, that means she trusts you and has probably considered having a relationship with you. If you bring it up, which you should do really soon, express everything and anything that you are dealing with. Who knows...maybe you guys can be more than just friends...cause its always good to began a relationship with. And just remember...YOU GOT NOTHING TO LOSE IF SHE IS MOVING TO NC. lol So just be true to yourself...search your inside and make sure your ready to express yourself. I hope this works for you and good luck. Tell me if you have another question. Here is my link.
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if you two are as close as you say you are i highly doubt she will ever want to forget a good friend like you. i had a lot of friends move away and ive kept in touch with almost everyone (the ones i didnt keep in touch with moved back.) so on that note get her e-mail, phone number, ect. and tell her that you'll miss her and you'll keep in touch. it really helps to keep in touch so you'll know when she'll be back to visit! and remember comunication is a two way street. good luck!
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Before she leaves you could remind her how much you care about her and that if she ever needs anything to call you, email you, or talk to her online. Then, you could apologize for any mistakes you might have made in the past. Tell her you are going to miss her and that you hope you can stay in touch even though you will no longer live next to each other. I am sure she will not forget about you because most people cannot forget about their best friends. I had a best friend that I had a falling out with during my Sophomore year and she moved away halfway through our junior year. Now, two years later...she came back home, and I first talked to her online and then I saw her and we hung out. Neither one of us forgot the other because we always have that best friend connection. I know that sounds weird but its true. No matter what she will always care for you and you will remain in her heart even after she leaves. You could even tell her that. If you are shy about saying things like this you might want to write her a letter and express the way you feel to her and apologize for the past. Goodluck, and I am sorry your friend is moving away =/
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You write, call, email, IM...stay in touch. You can still be friends, you just won't see each others faces everyday (unless you get webcam).Hopefully you can even visit each other now and then. Don't worry, you'll still be friends. :)
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