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I really need a advice!!!! Help!!!!!!
Well I meet this guy(let’s call him e)in net 1 month ago and he is my bf now…But he hurt me twice coz of having sex with other gurlz bcoz he want me to be that gurl his having sex of…I couldn’t meet him coz im in the other side of the world im an Asian and he is an American. I already forgive him but what should I do, he didn’t know that I have a bf in real life(J) were gonna be 1 year on July 12 but I really like him coz I think his really perfect for me but in J side I don’t feel that we have any chemistry for each other now. I don’t wanna hurt J…plz help me!!!
jam~15~f
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Hun, if you really like this guy then stay with him but dont put yourself in a difficult relationship.Try to follow your heart but dont make stupid decisions. I Think its alot easier to have a relationship with someone that you can see everyday or anyday just because they live near you. I hope Ive helpd. Ask more if you need to.
xoxo-Melissa
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I've never really thought online relationships were a good idea. He is a jerk for cheating on you, but if you think about it, if he has the chance to go with someone in the flesh obviously he's going to take it. There's been a lot of instances when I've liked guys online, and I've always ended up getting hurt. I really recommend against them. Besides, you'll probably start to feel the distance after a while anyway. It's up to you though, but if you ask me, I really don't think he's worth it.
As for J, that's really your choice to make. If you feel there's no chemistry -- it'll probably be better for both of you in the long run to call it off now. Yes, he'll probably be hurt, but it's worse to keep the relationship going when you don't feel the same as him. Breakups are inevitable, especially at your age. They suck, but you soon forget about it. I'm sure you'll both find someone else - hopefully someone a little closer to home. =P
Sorry if I came across a little harsh. And good luck.
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Haha oh dear god you have the answer but you don't even realize it!
You refer to E as an IMAGINARY BOYFRIEND.
Hahahahaha, dear jesus, you refer to J as your REAL LIFE BOYFRIEND, which would make E your IMAGINARY BOYFRIEND. Would you give up something real for something fake?
If you would you are a tool.
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jam -
Dump both of them.
No chemistry = no future
Unfaithful American = asshole
Make enough sense?
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