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Smart BF
OKay, my BF is way smarter than me. Perfects on any test and he doesn't study. I use to be known as the really smart kid but i kind of fell back because i didnt care if i was the TOP ya know? well now it seems he gets frusterated when i get a B or don't understand something. its almost like i'm to dumb for him. i really like him but i feel so inferior and when i do/say something dumb he just gives me this annoyed look. what do i do?!
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Mabe you can start studing and care if your the top. You and your bf could study together.
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Have a chat with me, and tell how it makes you feel when he looks down on you and acts like a total asshole. I know it'll be hard to bring up the courage to do so, but once you open your mouth, there's no going back. But it's for the better.
If you tell him, and he's pissed, or he doesn't change. Drop him like a hot brick. He's clearly not worth your time.
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We understand that you really like this guy BUT no guy should make you feel like he is that much better than you. First, you should tell him how you feel if you have not already. Communication in a relationship is the key to making it successful. Then, if that does not work and he does not respect the way you feel you should sit down and really think about whether or not this guy is the one you want to continue being with. Is this his only flaw? Does he make you happy? Is he sweet to you? Just think about all that and know that there are better guys out there. No guy should make a girl feel like they are stupid. He should adore her and make her feel perfect in EVERY way. By the way...there is NOTHING wrong w/ a B. good-luck with your smarty pants!
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If he's treating you like that just because you're getting lower marks than him it seems he has a bit of an ego problem. Not everyone you meet is going to have the same intelligence as you, it doesn't make them any less of a person. He shouldn't be so hung up over it. Basically what I'm trying to say is he seems like a jerk who's not worth your time, but perhaps you should tell him how you feel and see what he says. Ask him why he has such a problem whenever you get a B (which, I might add, is still a very good mark)and why it matters to him so much. If he can't give you a straight answer, then I think you'll know what to do.
Good luck.
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