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Boy touble Okay i like this guy ...He likes me to but he is moving away to california in spetember and we want to hang out together..In the summer and we play a game called ask a question and we each ask eachother a question and then we anwaser it truthfully...But last night he asked me if i would do it with him and i siad yeah becuz i liked him and hes like okay and im like but would rly have to want to do it adn hes like well i wouldnt have asked you if i didnt want to do it with you adn im like true...So i am not shure ever since then i have beed confused wat should i do?
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not too sound liek a bitch or anythinq.
thats totally wronq.
dont have sex with someone just because their movinq ? thats totally slutty & just because your never qoinq to see him aqain well,
im sure.. even thouqh you liek him doesnt mean you love him. dont throw yourself at him. liek what if you qot preqnant & hes movinq away ?
that would suck. ive had sex before.. i know i made the wronq decision..
but its really up too you. honestly, it sounds liek hes usinq you. ♥ ]
if your confused DONT DO IT i mean your probly not ready and i mean i don't know you but i sounds like your not that close to this guy i mean you are but not that close i think its a bad idea
<3 mari <3 ]
No way. You hardly know the guy, and hes moving. You'll be emotionally damaged. He may be your best friend or just your friend, but you both don't emtionally and physically know each other. Theres no reason for you both to have sex, it should never happen between you two because hes moving, and it doesn't matter if its in September, the fact of the matter is that hes leaving soon, very soon. You both need to stop asking sexual questions anyway, or you two or going to end up getting closer, and thats the last tangle you want to get yourself into. And you should tell him this, tell him that he needs to stop asking those questions, its wrong. Remind him that hes leaving soon, so you are both better off going your seperate ways and finding someone else.
-TheTeenGirl ]
he'll probably use you and break your heart. most likely avoid all contact with you and make you want to die. i know those kinda boys all too well.
conclusion: stick to masturbation until you find a good guy ]
It all depends on how old you are and what your personal morals are. If you are okay with doing that then you can... But you should never do it just bc you are never going to see the person again. If you feel awkward or bad about it, then it shouldn't happen. ]
You have to think, do you truely want to do 'it' with him, without thinking about how you answered the question he asked you. He may want to do it with you, but he is moving, and when he gets to his new town he might find other girls, he'd also like to do it with. Think about yourself, how you would feel if you did it with him and after he moved if he found a new girl.. have you already lost your virginity? If you havent.. you might want to think about this more- and even if you have you.. you still dont have to do it with him.. even if you have lost your virginty.. sex is a special thing that should be shared with people you truely love! Think about it hun.. hope I helped!!
<3 Maddie ]
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