15/F ok..Well I have a few girls that I used to be friends with that like to call me a slut because they hear about stuff from people that I have supposedly done with guys (they got the whole idea from when they found out I had sex with 2 guys),..And they tell people at school about it then it gets around to everyone eventually..so now my name at school is "slut girl"..How do I get people to stop talking crap on me about that?
ii_love_yo0h_x3 answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 6:10 pm: hey hun .. don't worry! everyone is just calling you that because they're all jealous you're getting action and they're not .. believe me i've gone through the exact same thing. and those girls that are calling you a slut that you used to be friends with evidentally weren't too good of friends. eventually the whole "slut girl" thing will pass and everyone will move onto someone else to pick on or just forget about it. but from now on just kinda keep what you do sexually with other people to yourself unless you can really trust the person you are telling NOT to tell anyone! good luck and i hope i helped you justa lil bit.
karenR answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 12:19 am: Sounds like they are jealous and out to make you look bad. I don't think people that you know are going to care much about what they say. Everyone else you'll just have to ignore as best you can. That's the problem with rumors and gossip. Its really hard to get rid of because not everyone knows you. Don't let them know they are bothering you...blow it off the best you can, it will eventually die down. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
WONKA_WORLD answered Monday June 13 2005, 11:34 pm: There are plenty of girls that have sex. People at your school must be really uptight. If you put out, most guys wanna get with you so keep it up. [ WONKA_WORLD's advice column | Ask WONKA_WORLD A Question ]
abercrombiebarbie answered Monday June 13 2005, 7:52 pm: Just don't take it into consideration. Teenagers do that in High School just so they can get you really upset. And when they see you like that, they think they did a really good job. So don't show them that you are upset..just ignore it and soon it will go away. If you still need more help, I definetly recommend watching the movie "Odd Girl Out" because it deals with the kinds of problems that you and many girls have out there. Hope I answered your question!
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