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my mum had this friend and she was my mums friend for ages.She used to act really nice around me and never show me that she did not like me!The other day my mum told me that her friend used to call me and my brothers retards this has made me so angry and it keeps playing on my mind.She has also been very bad to my mother!I think she might be jealous of my brothers and me because we are all successful.I beat her son in our gcses and i think this made her hate me!What i am asking is why does she call me and my brothers retards when we are not it makes me so angry.My mums other friend said its because she thinks i am pretty i don't know please advice me.
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What it sounds like to me is envy and jealousy. You said that youand your brother are successful, that may be the main reason in why she is calling you 2 retards. She sees that you guys do what yu are supposed to and that you 2 do not fail to your mother as children.....that gets her mad. If your mother and her still get together, you should comfront her and ask her what the hell is wrong with her.....if your mim will be mad at you for asking, ask her anyways.....it will make her look stupid and she will be embarrassed in front of your mom. Well i hope i'v helped. Email me if you need more advice.
*Gorda*
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I suppose it could be a numbeR of things. It COULD be, because she feels you aRe a pRettie giRl... and she's jealous in some foRm. OR it COULD be, because she's jealous of youR success, yep. If you ask me.. those two combined aRe a poweRful combination, so I wouldn't be outRageously suRpRised if that's why she says those things. OR possibly.. she could be doing it as a way to get at youR MotheR's thRoat, ya know??? Simply put.. BITH SLAP 'ER. OR, if that's not youR style... just have youR family completely ignoRe heR - she's obviously NOOO fRiend!!! Hope eveRything woRks out!! :D
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Your mom's friend probably said that because she wanted to insult you. This doesn't mean what she said is true, from what you said I can guess you're not a retard, but she meant to hurt your feelings. It seemed to work, so talk to your mom about it, and tell her how you feel. I don't understand why this woman is so mean to you!
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A better question to ask is why is your mom still friends with her? I wouldn't be. You are right to be mad, but consider the source. The woman obviously doesn't know how to raise kids, and is also jealous of your mom and her success, and your success and yoru brothers. I don't know why your mom bothers with her.
Tell you mom she can do better than that, and needs to drop that friend. Otherwise, you'll wonder about whether or not your mom really supports you and your brother and your success.
Michele
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she just jelous taht you adn your brothers are doing so well in life and she wishes her kids could be as succesful so she is angry casue shes jelous
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okie dokie..well she had no right to call you and ure brother retards ! the only reason i think she would be calling you and ure brother names is because she is jealous and you shouldn`t even bother with her ! and if ure mom is still "friends" with her i dont think she should be because i know fer a fact if one of my friends even called one of my family members a name i know i wouldn`t be friends with them anymore ! And yes, ure moms other friend was totally right ! =)
i hope i helped !
xo0ox Gabby
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Your mom did you a major disservice by telling you that her friend called you names. This "friend" needs to be voted off the planet. Encourage your mom to not see her any more. It's not you that has the problem, it's her attitude. Ignore her and prove her wrong. It's much more powerful.
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