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I'm not sure what I should do...But I REALLY need the help!!
OK, Me and my best friend both like the same guy. And we're not 100% sure but we think he likes both of us. We were thinking about letting him decide, but I think whoever he picks the other girl will be hurt. My other friend suggested that one of us should just forget about it and let the other one have him, but nither one of us really want to back down. And even though it would be the mature thing to do I still really want him and don't want my best friend to have him even though I Love Her (like a sis that is)! Does anyone have any ideas of what else we could do? And if you're going to say just let him decide- then please give me a few ideas of ways I can just talk to him about it without sounding like 'Omg your soo hott and everything'
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You don't say anything out of the ordinary. Just regular talk about music, school etc.
Whoever he asks out goes. He may like you both but he doesn't necessarily want to date either of you. If you want to boldly go and ask him out, then you will have an answer. :)
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This same thing happened to me and my best friend. She started liking one of my guy friends, and then I started seeing him that way too. (a little different i know lol) But...I think that if you don't want to jeopardize(sp?) you're relationship with your friend, then go ahead and drop the guy. Chances are that there is someone out there more perfect for you anyway. It would be a shame to lose your best friend over a fight with a guy. Don't risk that....If you think that that wouldn't happen, then you could talk to the guy, casually, and say something like "ya know, what do you think the chances are that something could ever happen between us?"...then go from there....Hope I helped some...Best of Luck to you...please put feedback if you have time
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Alright, this is a very tough situation. And beleive me... I have totally been there. My twin sister and me have the same taste in guys. So we have had several fights about guys that acted like they liked us both. So this is how we settled it. Let the guy decide. And here is how to settle it. Seperately talk to the guy. Call him up and talk to him. Say something like: "So I was just wondering something. Do you like me?" Just go out and ask it. Put it out in the open. If he says yes then ask about your friend and if he likes her. "Well I like you too. So what did you think of (your friend)?" After all is said and done if he likes you and not her then ask if he wants to hang out with you sometime soon. The only hard thing will be breaking it to your friend. Hopefully you both are loyal friends who won't try stealing eachother's guys. Whether its you who scores the guy, or your friend, just be happy for one another. You both are only thirteen. There will be tons more guys in your future so it is not the end of the world. And never EVER let a guy come in between you and your friend. Remember... Ho's before Bro's. lol ~Sherah
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