hi i have a friend and she is nice but is always controlling my life and it is freaking me out so what should i do i mean when i tell her she gets mad at me and stuff but then i have to do what ever she tells me to so ya please help me
love,
she controlling my life
1. Tell her that you aren't her bitch and you don't have to listen to her.
2. Get mad right back.
3. Explain to her what she's doing is stupid and unreasonable.
4. Stop being her friend.
Vassalisa answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 5:21 am: It sounds like your friend is insecure. You have to do what is best for you, and she will learn to adjust to it as long as you still make her feel important to you.
If she doesnt adjust, then she could just be bullying you, and you dont need to put up with that. So go ahead and do what you want, and continue to be really nice to her and try to make her feel good. If she is a real friend, it will only make your friendship better. [ Vassalisa's advice column | Ask Vassalisa A Question ]
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